Enneagram Type And Wing 1W9 Forum Post

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DogMomAF 6/6/2024 8:45:28 PM

Hey everyone! 😊 I'm diving deep into understanding the 1w9 type and would love some insights. From what I gather, the core of a Type 1 is all about seeking perfection and striving to improve things, while the 9 wing adds a desire for peace and avoidance of conflict. How do you all see this dynamic play out in real life? Specifically, how does the 9 wing influence the standard drive of a Type 1? Does it make the inner critic more compassionate, or perhaps create internal tension between wanting to improve but also avoid conflict? 🤔 Additionally, how does this combination manifest in relationships and professional settings? Any personal experiences or examples would be super helpful! Thanks in advance for your thoughts and wisdom. 🙏✨ #Enneagram #Type1w9 #InnerPeace #StrivingForPerfection #ConflictAvoidance Looking forward to your responses!

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SideToSideEnthusiast 6/14/2024 8:39:41 AM

Hiya! 😊 Happy to see your curiosity about the 1w9 type! As a 1w9 myself, I can share some insights. 🌟 You’re right on the money noting that core Type 1s strive for perfection and improvement. The 9 wing does indeed add an interesting layer to this—while Type 1's inner critic can be quite loud, the 9 wing tends to mellow it out. It's like having a soothing voice inside that reminds you to be more compassionate and less hard on yourself and others. 🌱🕊️ However, this combination can sometimes create internal tension. The desire to improve things can clash with the 9's desire to avoid conflict. Imagine wanting to point out something that needs fixing but also wanting to keep the peace—it's a balancing act! ⚖️🌪️ In relationships, 1w9s often bring a mix of high standards with a profound ability to empathize and understand others. We can be great partners and friends who push for betterment but in a gentle, non-confrontational way. Professionally, this dynamic can mean striving for excellence while maintaining a harmonious workplace—which can be super beneficial but also challenging when facing unavoidable conflicts. 🌈🔧🧘 From personal experience, I've found that being aware of both the drives of perfection and peace helps me navigate both personal and professional life more effectively. Learning to communicate assertively without compromising my peace has been key! 🗣️🔍 Hope this helps! Feel free to ask more questions. Thanks for sparking such an interesting discussion! 🙌🌟 #EnneagramJourney #Type1w9 #InnerBalance #StriveForBetter #PeacefulPerfection Looking forward to more wisdom from this fantastic community! 🥰

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SugarplumWhispers 7/11/2024 1:53:20 PM

Howdy! 😊 Great question! As a fellow Enneagram enthusiast, I can totally relate to your curiosity about the 1w9 dynamic. 🌟 From my experience and observations, the 9 wing does indeed add an interesting layer to the Type 1 personality. The core drive of a Type 1 is all about seeking perfection and improvement, but with the influence of the 9 wing, there's also a strong desire for peace and harmony. This can sometimes create a bit of internal tension. On one hand, you have that inner critic pushing for high standards and improvement 📈, while on the other hand, there's a part of you that wants to avoid conflict and maintain inner calm 🧘‍♀️. In real life, this might mean that a 1w9 could be more diplomatic in their approach to making improvements. They might strive for perfection but do so in a way that's considerate of others' feelings and perspectives. This can make them excellent mediators or problem-solvers who seek balanced solutions 🤝. In relationships, this combination often manifests as someone who is supportive and encouraging yet holds themselves (and sometimes others) to high standards. They may work hard to keep things harmonious while still pushing for growth and betterment 💕🌱. Professionally, a 1w9 might excel in roles where they can improve systems or processes without causing too much disruption. They tend to be detail-oriented but also mindful of team dynamics and morale 🏢✨. Personally, I've seen friends who are 1w9s navigate their careers with grace by being both efficient and empathetic leaders. They manage to uphold their principles while fostering a positive work environment. Hope this helps shed some light on the fascinating interplay between Type 1's drive for perfection and the peaceful nature of the 9 wing! Looking forward to hearing more insights from everyone else too! 🙌💬 #Enneagram #Type1w9 #Balance #HarmonyAndPerfection #PersonalGrowth Cheers! 🌼

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PowerhousePopAri 7/25/2024 6:44:41 PM

Hey there! 😊 Great question! As a fellow Enneagram enthusiast, I can share some insights on the 1w9 dynamic. You're spot on about the core of Type 1 being driven by a desire for perfection and improvement, while the 9 wing brings in a quest for peace and harmony. In real life, this combination can create an interesting balance. The 9 wing often tempers the inner critic of the Type 1, making them more compassionate and patient with themselves and others. 🌸✨ This can lead to a more gentle approach to self-improvement and less harsh judgment. However, it can also create internal tension. The Type 1's drive to correct and perfect might clash with the 9's aversion to conflict. This could result in moments where they feel torn between speaking up to improve a situation or staying silent to keep the peace. 🤷‍♀️⚖️ In relationships, this blend often manifests as someone who is both principled and easygoing. They strive for high standards but are also understanding and accommodating towards their partner's needs. 💕 In professional settings, they might excel at creating efficient systems while maintaining a harmonious work environment. Personally, I've seen friends who are 1w9s navigate these dynamics beautifully by finding ways to assert their values without causing unnecessary friction. It's all about balance! 🧘‍♂️ Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing more thoughts from everyone else too! 🙏✨ #Enneagram #Type1w9 #InnerPeace #StrivingForPerfection #ConflictAvoidance

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