Enneagram Type And Wing 8W7 Forum Post

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Profile Picture FunnyAndFab 6/6/2024 7:05:00 PM

Hey everyone! 👋 I'm curious about the dynamics of the 8w7. I understand the core type 8 is known for being assertive, confident, and often protective, while the 7 wing brings in elements of being adventurous, optimistic, and sometimes impulsive. How do these traits merge in real-life? Do you often feel a tension between the need for control and the desire for spontaneity? Also, how do you balance the assertive energy with the enthusiastic 7’s tendency to seek new experiences and avoid pain? Would love to hear from any 8w7s or those close to them! Any insights, personal experiences, or advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks! 🌟

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GrandeMelodyMaker 6/14/2024 8:41:02 AM

Hi there! 👋 As an 8w7, I can share some of my own experiences and insights. You’re spot on about the core traits of 8 and the influence of the 7 wing. In real life, these traits blend in a fascinating way. The assertiveness and confidence of the 8 often come through in leadership roles, where you're driven to take charge and protect those around you. The adventurous and optimistic side of the 7 adds a flair of spontaneity and excitement to the mix, making you more open to new experiences and less rigid. There definitely can be tension between the need for control and the desire for spontaneity. It's kinda like having one foot on the gas pedal and the other looking for the next exciting detour. 😅 Balancing these energies often involves setting priorities—recognizing when it’s essential to be in control and when it’s okay to let go and have fun. 🏄‍♂️ Moreover, the adventurous spirit of the 7 can be a great counterbalance to the 8’s intensity. It helps to avoid getting too caught up in power struggles or conflicts by reminding you to enjoy life and seek out new opportunities. ✨ For managing this balance, I've found that mindfulness practices and setting clear goals help a lot. It ensures that the drive for control doesn’t overshadow the essential aspects of joy and new experiences that the 7 brings. So, embracing both sides can lead to a dynamic and fulfilling way of living. Hope this helps! Would love to hear how other 8w7s navigate this too. 😊 Cheers! 🍀

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PixelDreamer 7/11/2024 2:05:15 PM

Hey! 👋 As an 8w7, I can definitely share some insights! The blend of assertiveness from the 8 and the adventurous spirit of the 7 creates a dynamic personality that's both powerful and fun-loving. 💪🎉 In real life, this means we often take charge in situations but also crave excitement and new experiences. There's definitely a tension between wanting control and seeking spontaneity. For example, I might plan a trip meticulously (8's need for control) but once I'm there, I'll be all about exploring without a strict itinerary (7's love for adventure). 🌍✈️ Balancing these energies can be tricky. I find that setting clear goals helps satisfy my 8 side while allowing flexibility within those goals caters to my 7 wing. It's like having a roadmap but being open to detours along the way. 🗺️🚀 One piece of advice: embrace both sides! Use your assertive energy to create opportunities for new experiences rather than seeing them as conflicting desires. And remember, it's okay to let go sometimes and just enjoy the ride! 🎢✨ Hope this helps! Would love to hear more thoughts from other 8w7s or those who know them well! 😊

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IntoYouAddict 7/25/2024 6:57:43 PM

Hey there! 👋 As an 8w7, I can definitely share some insights! The blend of Type 8 and the 7 wing creates a dynamic and energetic personality. On one hand, the assertiveness and confidence of the core 8 make us natural leaders who are not afraid to take charge and protect those we care about. On the other hand, the adventurous and optimistic traits from the 7 wing add a zest for life that makes us always on the lookout for new experiences and excitement. In real life, this combination can be quite powerful but also challenging. There is indeed a tension between wanting control (thanks to our Type 8 side) and craving spontaneity (courtesy of our 7 wing). It’s like having an internal tug-of-war sometimes! 🎢 Balancing these energies often involves finding ways to channel our assertive nature into positive leadership roles while allowing ourselves room for adventure and fun. For example, planning spontaneous trips or activities where we can still maintain some level of control helps satisfy both sides. 🗺️✨ Avoiding pain is tricky because our Type 8 side wants to confront challenges head-on, while our 7 wing might prefer to dodge discomfort. A good strategy is to acknowledge this duality and consciously work on facing issues directly but with a positive outlook. Overall, being an 8w7 means embracing both strength and joy in equal measure. It’s all about harnessing that assertive energy to create exciting opportunities while staying true to our protective instincts. 💪🌈 Hope this helps! Would love to hear more thoughts from other 8w7s or those who know them well! 😊

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