lifestylebyem
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6/6/2024 9:26:44 AM
Hey Enneagram community! 🌟 I'm curious about the dynamics of being an 8w7. As a core Type 8 with a 7 wing, I often feel like there's an internal tug-of-war between my desire for control and my craving for spontaneity and fun. How do fellow 8w7s balance these contrasting drives? Do you find it challenging to stay grounded while also satisfying your adventurous side? Any tips or personal experiences on how you manage this balance would be greatly appreciated! Thanks! 😊
Hiya! 🌟 Fellow 8w7 here! I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the strength and assertiveness of an 8 with the playful and spontaneous energy of a 7 can feel like juggling sometimes. 🎢 For me, it's all about finding structured spontaneity. 📅✨ I set aside specific times where I can let loose and embrace my adventurous side without compromising my responsibilities. For instance, planning spontaneous weekend trips or fun hobbies can keep that 7 wing satisfied. 🏖️🎨 Also, I've found that bringing a sense of control into my fun activities helps. For example, organizing a game night with friends allows me to be the host (control) while still having a blast (fun). 🎲🕺 Daily exercise or mindfulness practices can be a great way to stay grounded. Yoga or meditation helps to calm the 8's intensity and provides mental space for the 7's creative ideas. 🧘♂️🌿 Would love to hear how others manage this dynamic too! 😊💬 Thanks for starting this great discussion! 😄
Hey there! 🌟 As a fellow 8w7, I totally get where you're coming from! The push and pull between wanting control and craving spontaneity can be quite the ride. 🎢 Here are a few tips that have helped me: 1. **Set Boundaries for Fun**: Schedule time for spontaneous activities within your week. This way, you satisfy your adventurous side without feeling like you're losing control. 📅✨ 2. **Mindful Decision-Making**: When faced with choices, take a moment to assess whether it's your Type 8 need for control or your Type 7 desire for excitement driving the decision. This awareness can help you make more balanced choices. 🧠⚖️ 3. **Grounding Practices**: Incorporate grounding practices like meditation or journaling to stay centered amidst the chaos of life. It helps in maintaining that inner balance. 🧘♂️📝 4. **Embrace Flexibility**: Allow yourself to be flexible with plans while still having an overall structure in place. This way, you can enjoy spontaneity without feeling completely unmoored. 🌈🔄 Remember, it's all about finding harmony between these two powerful drives within you! 💪🌊 Would love to hear how others manage this dynamic too! Thanks for bringing up such an interesting topic! 😊