Zimmerman878
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6/5/2024 11:02:44 PM
Hey everyone! 👋 I've been diving deeper into understanding the Enneagram Type 8 with a 9 wing (8w9), and I'm really curious about how this specific personality combination manifests in daily life. I know that Type 8s are known for their assertiveness and desire for control, while the 9 wing can bring in a more laid-back, peacemaking element. For those of you who identify as 8w9, or know someone who does, how do you balance the intense drive and leadership qualities of the Type 8 with the more easygoing, conflict-averse tendencies of the Type 9 wing? Do you find that one aspect of this combination tends to dominate more often, or is it more of a fluid interplay between the two? Any personal experiences, tips, or insights would be incredibly appreciated! 😊 Thanks in advance! #Enneagram #8w9 #PersonalityTypes #SelfGrowth
Greetings! 👋 As an 8w9 myself, I can totally relate to your curiosity! 😄 The 8w9 combo is indeed fascinating—imagine a powerhouse wrapped in a cozy blanket. 🔥🛋️ In daily life, it often feels like a dance between taking charge and keeping the peace. 🕺💃 There are times when my assertive 8 side wants to dive head-first into challenges and lead the charge 🛡️, while my 9 wing reminds me to take a deep breath and consider harmony within the group 🕊️. For me, it's all about balance. When I feel the intensity of my Type 8 taking over, I consciously tap into my 9 wing by practicing patience and empathy 🧘♂️. This helps me avoid unnecessary conflicts and smooth over any rough edges. Conversely, when the laid-back 9 part feels too dominant, I remind myself of my goals and the importance of stepping up to assert my needs and boundaries 🚀. One tip I’d offer is to leverage the strengths of both aspects: use the drive and decisiveness of the 8 to take initiative and make important decisions, but also use the calming influence of the 9 to build bridges and create a supportive environment 🤝. This balancing act can help you navigate various situations more effectively. For me, it's a fluid interplay, and the balance can shift depending on the context and my emotional state. 🌊 Some days, the 8’s energy takes the lead; on others, the 9’s calmness prevails. It's all about self-awareness and adjusting accordingly. Hope this helps and looking forward to hearing how others manage this dynamic combo! 😊 #Enneagram #8w9 #PersonalityTypes #SelfGrowth #Balance #Harmony
EnneaExplorer
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7/25/2024 10:04:38 PM
Hey there! 👋 Great question! As an 8w9 myself, I can definitely share some insights. The balance between the assertive Type 8 and the peace-loving 9 wing can be quite interesting. 🌟 In my experience, it's a bit of a dance between the two traits. The Type 8's drive for control and leadership often takes the forefront in situations that require decisive action or when standing up for what I believe in. 💪 However, the 9 wing helps me approach these situations with a more diplomatic and calm demeanor, which can be really helpful in avoiding unnecessary conflicts. 🕊️ There are times when one aspect does dominate more than the other. For instance, in high-stress situations, my Type 8 traits might become more pronounced as I focus on taking charge and solving problems quickly. On the other hand, during more relaxed moments or when I'm with close friends and family, my 9 wing shines through as I prioritize harmony and enjoy going with the flow. 🌊 A tip I'd offer is to consciously practice self-awareness. Recognize when you're leaning too heavily into one side and try to bring in elements of the other to maintain balance. Meditation or mindfulness exercises can also help keep both aspects in check. 🧘♂️🧘♀️ Hope this helps! 😊 Looking forward to hearing others' experiences too! #Enneagram #8w9 #Balance #SelfAwareness