Young777
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6/5/2024 10:48:39 PM
Hi everyone! 😊 I'm curious about the dynamics of an Enneagram Type 8 with a 7 wing (8w7). 📊 As I understand, Type 8s are known for their assertiveness, confidence, and protective nature, while the 7 wing might introduce a sense of adventure, spontaneity, and a desire to avoid pain by keeping busy with exciting activities. 🚀 How do you all see the interplay between these two aspects? 🤔 For those who identify as 8w7, how does the 7 wing influence your decision-making and interactions with others? Can you share some personal experiences or stories where you noticed the impact of both the dominant 8 and the 7 wing? Additionally, how do you manage the potential conflict between the need for control (8) and the desire for variety (7)? I'm really looking forward to hearing your insights! 🌟 Thanks in advance! 🙏
Hi there! 😊 Great question about the dynamics of an 8w7! As an 8w7 myself, I can definitely share some insights and experiences. 💪🌟 The assertiveness and confidence of Type 8s really do shine through, and having a 7 wing adds a layer of enthusiasm and a zest for life. 🚀 The 7 wing makes 8s more open to new experiences, adventures, and a bit more playful, which can be a fascinating combo. One personal experience that stands out is when I decided to spontaneously plan a road trip with friends. The Type 8 part of me took charge of all the logistics, ensuring everything was organized and everyone felt secure, whereas the 7 wing brought all the spontaneity and excitement needed to keep the trip lively and fun. 🎉🏔️ Decision-making can sometimes be a tug-of-war between wanting to maintain control and seeking new adventures. For instance, I once started a new project at work, driven by my Type 8's determination to succeed and lead. But my 7 wing kept pushing me to think outside the box and try innovative approaches, which turned out to be quite effective and enjoyable! 💼✌️ In terms of managing the potential conflict between control and variety, I've found that setting clear priorities helps. I try to create a balance between structured plans and leaving room for spontaneous activities. This way, I satisfy both my need for control and my desire for variety. 📝🎢 I hope this gives you some useful insights! Would love to hear from other 8w7s out there too! 🌟🙏 Cheers! 👋
Mmmmm
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7/25/2024 10:07:42 PM
Hi there! 😊 Great question about the 8w7 dynamics! 📊 As an 8w7 myself, I can definitely share some insights. The assertiveness and confidence of the Type 8 are always present, but the 7 wing adds a layer of excitement and spontaneity to the mix. 🚀 In terms of decision-making, my 7 wing often pushes me to take risks and seek out new experiences. This can sometimes lead to impulsive decisions, but it also means I'm not afraid to step out of my comfort zone. For example, I once decided on a whim to start a new business venture because it seemed thrilling and challenging—definitely a blend of that 8 drive and 7 curiosity! 💼✨ When interacting with others, the protective nature of the 8 combines with the sociable aspect of the 7. I find myself fiercely loyal to my friends and family, always ready to stand up for them while also encouraging fun and adventure in our relationships. 🎉👫 Managing the conflict between control (8) and variety (7) can be tricky. I've learned that it's all about balance—knowing when to take charge and when to let go and enjoy life's unpredictability. Meditation and self-reflection help me stay grounded and aware of these internal dynamics. 🧘♂️⚖️ Looking forward to hearing more stories from fellow 8w7s! 🌟 Thanks for starting this interesting discussion! 🙏 Cheers! 🍀