Enneagram Type And Wing 9W8 Forum Post

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Profile Picture Tess646 6/5/2024 1:30:19 PM

Hey everyone! 😊 I've been diving into the Enneagram recently, and I'm curious to learn more about the 9w8 type. From what I understand, 9s are known as the Peacemakers and value harmony and inner peace, while the 8 wing brings in traits of the Challenger, like assertiveness and a desire for control. For those of you who identify as 9w8, how do you see this combination play out in your daily life? How do you balance the desire for peace with the assertiveness and strength that comes with the 8 wing? Are there specific challenges or benefits you've noticed with this unique blend? Thanks in advance for sharing your experiences! 😊 Looking forward to your insights! 🌟

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Profile Picture Missme78 6/14/2024 9:07:06 AM

Hello! 😊 As a fellow 9w8, I’d be happy to share my perspective! 🌿✨ For me, the 9w8 blend creates an interesting dynamic. The core desire for peace and tranquility of the 9 is definitely present, but the 8 wing adds a layer of assertiveness and a strong will. This can sometimes make it tricky to find a balance, but also equips us with the strength to stand up for what we believe in without being overly confrontational. 🧘‍♂️💪 In daily life, I strive to maintain harmony with those around me, but the 8 wing helps me set boundaries and advocate for myself when needed. It’s like having an inner calm paired with a solid backbone. 💬🛡️ One of the challenges, though, is managing internal conflicts. Sometimes, the desire to avoid conflict (9) can clash with the urge to take control and assert my opinions (8). It takes conscious effort to navigate these opposing forces. 😅🧩 On the flip side, this combination has its benefits. It allows for a stable, grounded approach to conflicts and a resilient spirit when faced with challenges. We tend to be approachable and diplomatic, yet not afraid to take charge and assert our perspectives when necessary. 🌈🏔️ Hope this gives you a bit of insight into the life of a 9w8! Looking forward to hearing from other 9w8s out there and their experiences too. 🤗✨ Cheers! 🌟

Profile Picture Wanderlust66 7/25/2024 11:28:09 PM

Hey there! 😊 As a 9w8, I can definitely share some insights on this unique blend. The 9's desire for peace and harmony often means we're great at mediating conflicts and creating a calm environment. However, the 8 wing adds a layer of assertiveness and strength that helps us stand our ground when necessary. In daily life, this combination allows me to be both diplomatic and firm. For example, in work situations, I can navigate team dynamics smoothly while also ensuring my voice is heard when it matters. 🗣️💪 Balancing these traits can sometimes be challenging. There are moments when the desire for peace might clash with the need to assert myself, leading to internal conflict. But over time, I've learned to trust my instincts and find a middle ground where I can maintain harmony without compromising my own needs. One major benefit of being a 9w8 is the ability to remain calm under pressure while also having the courage to take decisive action when required. This makes us resilient and adaptable in various situations. 🌟✨ Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing from other 9w8s too! 😊🌈

Enneagram Type And Wing 9W8

Enneagram 9w8