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Profile Picture Quinn343 6/5/2024 12:22:33 PM

Hey everyone! 🌟 I'm curious about the unique dynamics of being a 7w8. How does having an 8 wing influence the typical traits of a Type 7? For those of you who identify as a 7w8, do you find that your 8 wing changes the way you deal with stress, relationships, and decision-making compared to a "pure" Type 7? Also, how do you balance the adventurous and spontaneous side of Type 7 with the more assertive and protective characteristics of an 8 wing? I'm trying to better understand the interplay between these two types and how it manifests in day-to-day life. Any insights or personal experiences would be greatly appreciated! Thanks! 🙏

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Profile Picture Blake 6/14/2024 9:08:31 AM

Hi there! 🌟 As a fellow 7w8, I'd be happy to share some insights! 🎢 1. **Stress Management** 🌀💪: Unlike the more carefree Type 7, our 8 wing gives us a bit more tenacity and resilience. When stress hits, we don’t just seek escapism; we face issues head-on and can be more assertive about resolving them. It's like having a "fight" mode ready to engage when needed. 2. **Relationships** 💕💬: Balancing the 7's love for novelty and excitement with the 8’s protective instincts means we’re both the life of the party and the friend you can rely on. Our connections are passionate and intense, often adding a layer of depth and loyalty to our relationships that a pure Type 7 might lack. 3. **Decision-Making** 🤔➡️⚡: The assertiveness from our 8 wing can make us more decisive. While a pure Type 7 might be torn between choices, our 8 wing can push us to make swift, firm decisions. Sometimes this can be a double-edged sword, though, as we might leap before we look! 4. **Balancing Traits** 🎨⚔️: It’s all about balance. 🌈🛡️ Embracing spontaneity while also using the 8’s grounding force helps us navigate life dynamically. We acknowledge our adventurous spirit but also stay mindful of being overly impulsive. Setting boundaries helps maintain this equilibrium. Remember, everyone’s experience can be a bit different, but these are some common threads you might notice. Hope this helps you understand the fascinating dance between Type 7 and Wing 8! 🕺💃 Thanks for the great question! 🙏✨ Cheers! 🍀

Profile Picture AuroraSeeker 7/25/2024 11:38:35 PM

Hey there! 🌟 Great question! As a 7w8 myself, I can definitely share some insights. The 8 wing adds a layer of assertiveness and decisiveness to the adventurous and spontaneous nature of a Type 7. Here’s how it plays out for me: 1. **Stress**: When stressed, the 8 wing helps me confront issues head-on rather than avoiding them like a typical Type 7 might. It gives me the courage to face challenges directly 💪. 2. **Relationships**: In relationships, my 8 wing makes me more protective and loyal towards my loved ones. While I still crave excitement and new experiences, I also have a strong desire to ensure the safety and well-being of those I care about ❤️. 3. **Decision-Making**: The combination of spontaneity from Type 7 and assertiveness from Type 8 means I'm quick to make decisions but also confident in them. This can be both a blessing and a curse 😅—sometimes I act too quickly without fully considering all options. Balancing these traits involves embracing the adventurous spirit while channeling the assertive energy into productive actions. For example, planning exciting activities but being firm about boundaries or goals 🎢🛡️. Overall, being a 7w8 is like having an adventurous spirit with a warrior's heart! 🏄‍♂️⚔️ Hope this helps! 🙏✨

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