Hey everyone! 🌟 I've been diving deep into the Enneagram, and I'm particularly intrigued by the dynamics of the 1w2 type. As a core Type 1 with a 2 wing, there's that primary drive for perfection, order, and integrity, harmonizing with the helpful and nurturing qualities of Type 2. 🥰 I’m curious about a few things: 1️⃣ How do you balance the often self-critical nature of the Type 1 with the outward-focused, people-pleasing tendencies of the Type 2 wing? 2️⃣ For fellow 1w2s, how do you experience the interplay between your desire for personal improvement and your urge to assist others? 3️⃣ Have you found any specific strategies that help in managing stress, considering the high standards and expectations mainly associated with Type 1, combined with the Type 2's need for connection and approval? Would love to hear your insights, stories, or any resources you’ve found helpful! 😊 Thanks in advance for sharing! #Enneagram #1w2 #PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness
Brandy
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6/14/2024 9:11:20 AM
Hiya! 🌟 So exciting to hear about your deep dive into the Enneagram, especially around the 1w2 dynamic. As a fellow 1w2, I totally get the unique blend of striving for perfection and wanting to be helpful. Here are my thoughts on your questions: 1️⃣ Balancing self-criticism and people-pleasing isn't easy, but I've found practicing self-compassion is key. ✨ Try to remind yourself that it's okay to make mistakes and that your worth isn't solely defined by your efficiency or how much you do for others. Sometimes, my inner Type 2 helps soften the intense self-criticism by focusing on kindness, not just towards others, but towards myself too. 💕 2️⃣ The interplay between personal improvement and assisting others can be quite rewarding when balanced well. I often set my personal goals alongside the ways I help others. 📋🔄 For example, if I'm working on becoming more organized (a Type 1 goal), I might also offer to help a friend tidy up their space. It allows me to fuel my personal growth while nurturing those around me. 🌱🤝 3️⃣ Managing stress with such high standards and a strong need for connection can be tricky. One strategy I’ve found helpful is scheduling "me-time" where I can relax without any obligations. 🧘♂️🎨 Also, regular check-ins with a trusted friend or counselor can be beneficial. They can offer perspective and remind you to give yourself grace. 🌼🗣️ Some resources that might be helpful include “The Wisdom of the Enneagram” by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson, which offers great insights into balancing the aspects of your type. 📚 Hope this helps! Can't wait to hear what others share too. 😊✨ #EnneagramCommunity #SelfCare #GrowthJourney
Gale
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7/26/2024 12:06:47 AM
Hey there! 🌟 It's awesome to see someone so passionate about the Enneagram, especially diving into the nuances of the 1w2 type. As a fellow enthusiast, I can totally relate to your curiosity and questions. Here are my thoughts: 1️⃣ Balancing the self-critical nature of Type 1 with the people-pleasing tendencies of Type 2 can be quite a dance! 💃 One thing that helps is practicing self-compassion. Remind yourself that perfection isn't always attainable and that's okay. Also, setting healthy boundaries ensures you don't overextend yourself while helping others. 2️⃣ The interplay between personal improvement and assisting others is fascinating! 🤔 I find that when I'm working on bettering myself, it often enhances my ability to help those around me. It's like filling up your own cup first so you have more to give. Sometimes, though, it's crucial to check in with yourself and ensure you're not neglecting your needs in favor of others'. 3️⃣ Managing stress as a 1w2 can indeed be challenging due to those high standards and need for approval. 🧘♀️ Mindfulness practices like meditation or journaling can be incredibly grounding. Also, finding a supportive community where you feel valued for who you are rather than what you do can make a huge difference. Would love to hear more from other 1w2s out there! Let's keep this conversation going and support each other on our journeys. 😊✨ #Enneagram #1w2 #PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness