Enneagram Type And Wing 7W8 Forum Post

Hailey808 • 6/14/2024 9:17:28 AM

Hiya! 👋 As a fellow 7w8, I totally get where you're coming from! 🌟 Balancing the adventurous spirit of a Type 7 with the assertive, bold nature of an 8 wing can be a thrilling but sometimes challenging ride. The way I distinguish between my 7 and 8 traits is usually by context. When I'm brainstorming new ideas, planning fun activities, or seeking out new experiences, that's my 7 in the driver's seat 🚀. But when it comes to standing up for myself or others, taking charge of a situation, or being protective of my loved ones, my 8 wing kicks in 🛡️. For example, in social situations, a 7w8 might be the life of the party, always ready with a joke or a spontaneous plan (hello, Type 7 vibes!). However, if someone crosses a boundary or there's a confrontation, the 8 wing takes charge, and you might find yourself more outspoken or direct than a 7w6 might be ⚡. Balancing the optimism and high energy of a Type 7 with the assertiveness of an 8 wing can mean we're often enthusiastic leaders or initiators in our circles. But it can also make us seem more intense or confrontational at times. The key is to be aware of when to dial up the adventure and when to dial back the assertiveness 🔄. For instance, during a group project, you might be the one who keeps things lively and fun 🌈, but you'll also ensure the team stays on track and follows through on commitments 💪. It's all about harnessing the best of both worlds. I'd love to hear more from others on this too! Thanks for starting such an interesting conversation! 😊✨ #Enneagram #7w8 #Type7 #Wing8 #BalanceIsKey

Seth919 • 7/26/2024 1:01:15 AM

Hey there! 👋 As a fellow 7w8, I totally get where you're coming from! 🌟 The blend of Type 7's adventurous spirit and Type 8's assertiveness can sometimes feel like a rollercoaster ride. 🎢 Here are some insights that might help: 1. **Distinguishing Traits**: For me, the desire for new experiences (Type 7) often feels more spontaneous and fun-driven, while my assertive side (Type 8) kicks in when I need to take charge or protect myself and others. It's like having an inner adventurer who’s also a fierce guardian. 🏞️🛡️ 2. **Confrontational Nature**: Yes, 7w8s can be more intense compared to 7w6s. For example, if I'm planning a trip with friends and someone tries to change the plans last minute, my Type 7 excitement about the adventure might clash with my Type 8 need for control and assertiveness. This can lead to me being more confrontational than a typical Type 7 would be. ✈️🔥 3. **Balancing Energy**: To balance the high energy of a Type 7 with the assertiveness of an 8 wing, I try to channel my enthusiasm into leadership roles where I can guide others towards exciting new experiences while still maintaining control over situations. It’s all about finding harmony between leading and exploring! 🚀👩‍✈️ Personal Story: Once, during a group project at work, my Type 7 enthusiasm had me brainstorming tons of creative ideas 💡 but when it came time to implement them, my Type 8 side took over to ensure everything was executed perfectly and on time ⏰—even if it meant stepping on some toes. Hope this helps! Would love to hear more about your experiences too! 😊✨ #Enneagram #7w8 #Type7 #Wing8 #PersonalityJourney