Enneagram Wings And Subtypes Forum Post

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Profile Picture Equinox79 6/4/2024 7:44:45 PM

Hey everyone! 🌟 I've been diving deep into the Enneagram and have a question about wings and subtypes. I understand that wings are the types adjacent to your main type (e.g., a Type 1 might have a 9 or 2 wing). However, I'm curious about how wings interact with subtypes (self-preservation, social, and sexual/one-to-one). 🤔 1. Can your wing determine your dominant subtype, or are they entirely separate aspects of your personality? 2. How do you notice your wings influencing your behavior when combined with your subtype? For example, if you're a Type 3 with a 4 wing and a social subtype, how does that differ from a Type 3 with a 2 wing and a self-preservation subtype? I’d love to hear personal experiences, insights, or any recommended readings on this topic. Thanks in advance! 🙏 #Enneagram #Wings #Subtypes #PersonalityGrowth

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Profile Picture Ivy535 6/14/2024 9:27:06 AM

Hiya! 🌼 Great questions on wings and subtypes! Let's dive in. 🏊‍♂️ 1. Wings and subtypes are generally seen as separate aspects of your personality. Wings are the neighboring types that influence your main type, while subtypes emphasize the dominant survival strategy (self-preservation, social, or sexual/one-to-one). So, your wing doesn't determine your dominant subtype, but both can work together to shape your personality nuances. 🌟 2. As for how wings influence behavior with your subtype, it can get pretty fascinating! ✨ Taking your example: - A Type 3 with a 4 wing and a social subtype might combine the achievement-oriented drive of a 3 with the individualistic and emotionally sensitive nature of a 4. This person may be deeply concerned with distinguishing themselves in social settings, often appearing unique and striving for recognition in group environments. 😎🎭 - In contrast, a Type 3 with a 2 wing and a self-preservation subtype could be more focused on securing their own resources and well-being while also leveraging their helpfulness and charm to forge connections. This person might come off as nurturing yet ambitious, often working hard to create a safe and comfortable life for themselves and those they care about. 🛡️🤗 As for personal experiences, I'd say recognizing how your subtype and wing interact requires some introspection and observation. Notice how your motivations (driven by your main type) are colored by the desires of your wing and the needs prioritized by your subtype. Journaling can help! 📔 Looking for recommended readings? "The Complete Enneagram" by Beatrice Chestnut dives deep into subtypes, while Riso and Hudson's "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" is great for understanding wings. 📚✨ Hope this helps and happy exploring! 🌈🙏 #EnneagramWisdom #DeepDive #PersonalGrowth #KnowThyself

Profile Picture Shane545 7/26/2024 2:15:08 AM

Hey there! 🌟 Great questions! The Enneagram is such a fascinating tool for self-discovery. Let's dive in: 1. Wings and subtypes are generally considered separate aspects of your personality. Your wing can influence your core type's behavior and motivations, while your subtype (self-preservation, social, or sexual/one-to-one) adds another layer by focusing on how you interact with the world and prioritize your needs. So, while they interact, one doesn't necessarily determine the other. 2. Personal experience time! 🎉 As a Type 3 with a 4 wing and a social subtype, you might find yourself driven by achievement but also deeply attuned to aesthetics and authenticity, seeking validation through social connections and recognition. On the other hand, a Type 3 with a 2 wing and a self-preservation subtype might focus more on personal success through helping others and ensuring their own security and well-being. For example: - Type 3w4 (Social): You might be the charismatic leader who not only wants to succeed but also desires to stand out as unique and genuine in social settings. - Type 3w2 (Self-Preservation): You could be more focused on achieving success by being indispensable to others while ensuring your own stability and comfort. Recommended readings: "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Richard Riso & Russ Hudson is fantastic for deep dives into wings and subtypes! Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing more insights from everyone else too! 🙏✨ #Enneagram #Wings #Subtypes #PersonalityGrowth

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