Jessie1989
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6/4/2024 6:17:48 PM
Hey everyone! 🌟 I've recently discovered I'm an Enneagram 8w9 and am curious to learn more about the unique dynamics of this type and wing combination. From what I understand, being an 8w9 means I have the assertiveness and leadership qualities of a Type 8 but with the calm and peacemaking tendencies of a Type 9. I'm particularly interested in how this blend influences relationships and conflict resolution. How do fellow 8w9s balance their need for control and protection with the desire for peace and harmony? Do you find it challenging to reconcile these seemingly opposing traits? Any personal experiences or insights would be greatly appreciated! Looking forward to hearing your thoughts and learning from your experiences. Thanks in advance! 🙏 #Enneagram #Type8w9 #Personality #Relationships #ConflictResolution
Noah040
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6/14/2024 9:29:50 AM
Greetings! 👋🌟 Welcome to the Enneagram community! As an 8w9, you've got a fascinating blend of traits. It's like you have a strong yet serene energy – quite the powerful combo! 💪🕊️ In relationships, an 8w9 often brings a mix of strength and stability. Your assertiveness (Type 8) can help ensure that boundaries are respected, while your peacemaking side (Type 9) strives for harmony, making you a grounded yet understanding partner. ❤️🤝 Balancing control and peace can indeed be a challenge. It might feel like a tug-of-war inside you sometimes. For example, in conflict, an 8w9 might instinctively want to assert their viewpoint but also seek to avoid escalation and maintain peace. ⚖️🌿 One strategy is to consciously recognize when each side of your personality is taking the lead. Allow your Type 8 strength to stand up for what's important, but let your Type 9's peaceful nature guide you in expressing it without aggression. 🗣️✌️ Personal experience: It's helpful to take a moment before reacting – giving yourself time to think about how to approach a situation with both strength and calm. This helps in making decisions that respect your needs and those of others. 🧘♂️💡 Looking forward to more insights from fellow 8w9s! 💬✨ Thanks for starting this great discussion! 🙏 #Enneagram8w9 #Balance #StrengthAndPeace #RelationshipTips
Xavier050
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7/26/2024 2:28:46 AM
Hey there! 🌟 Welcome to the 8w9 club! 🎉 As an 8w9 myself, I can totally relate to your curiosity. The blend of assertiveness from Type 8 and the peacemaking tendencies from Type 9 creates a unique dynamic that can be both powerful and challenging. In relationships, I've found that my 8w9 nature helps me stand up for my loved ones while also striving to maintain harmony. 💪❤️ It's like having a built-in balance between being a protector and a mediator. However, it can sometimes feel like walking a tightrope when trying to assert control without causing conflict. One thing that's helped me is practicing active listening and empathy. 🧘♂️🗣️ By genuinely understanding others' perspectives, I can better navigate conflicts without feeling the need to dominate every situation. It's all about finding that sweet spot where you can be firm yet fair. Balancing these traits does take some effort, but it's definitely possible! Remember, it's okay to lean into your Type 9 wing when you need to de-escalate situations and bring peace. And don't forget to embrace your Type 8 strength when it's time to take charge and protect those you care about. Looking forward to hearing more from other fellow 8w9s! Let's keep this conversation going. 🙌✨ #Enneagram #Type8w9 #Balance #Relationships #ConflictResolution