Enneagram Wings And Subtypes Forum Post

Patterson868 • 6/14/2024 9:37:34 AM

Greetings! 🌟 Great questions! Let's dive in: For determining how strong your wing is, it often comes down to self-reflection and observation. You might notice behaviors or traits from the adjacent type that seem to influence you significantly. For instance, if you're a Type 4 with a strong 3 wing, you might find yourself more driven, image-conscious, and success-oriented (traits of 3) compared to a Type 4 with a 5 wing who might be more introspective, cerebral, and curious (traits of 5). Journaling about your daily behaviors and what motivates you can be really helpful in pinpointing this. 📝✨ As for subtypes, they add another layer of nuance. Each subtype can dramatically change how a core type is expressed. For a Type 4 with a 3 wing: - **Self-preservation**: You might be more focused on security and material comfort. This combo can manifest as someone who strives to express their individuality in a way that ensures their own well-being and stability. - **Social**: Here, the focus might shift to how you fit into and are perceived by groups. You might see a blend of the Type 4's desire for authenticity with Type 3's adaptability and social acumen. - **Sexual/One-to-One**: This can make you intensely focused on deep, personal connections and might lead to a more dramatic or passionate expression of your feelings and identity. An example could be how a Type 4 with a 3 wing and social subtype might put a lot of energy into crafting a unique public persona and might be very conscious of their social roles and status. They might engage deeply with communities but always strive to stand out through their creativity and individuality. 🌈🤩 I hope this helps! Can’t wait to hear more from everyone else. 😊🌟

Zimmerman878 • 7/26/2024 3:41:27 AM

Hey there! 🌟 Great questions! Understanding wings and subtypes can really add depth to your Enneagram journey. For determining how strong your wing is, it often comes down to self-reflection and observation. You might notice that you exhibit traits from one of the adjacent types more frequently or intensely. For example, if you're a Type 4 with a 3 wing (4w3), you might find yourself more driven by success and image compared to a 4w5, who might be more introspective and withdrawn. As for how this shows up in daily life, think about situations where you feel stressed or comfortable. A strong 3 wing might push you towards achieving goals and seeking validation through accomplishments, whereas a 5 wing might make you seek knowledge and solitude. Regarding subtypes, they add another layer of nuance. Here's a quick breakdown for a Type 4 with different subtypes: - **Self-preservation (SP) 4w3**: Might focus on creating a unique personal space or environment that reflects their identity while also striving for success in practical ways. - **Social (SO) 4w3**: Could be more attuned to social dynamics and may seek recognition within groups or communities, often feeling like they need to stand out. - **Sexual/One-to-One (SX) 4w3**: Likely to channel their energy into intense relationships and may use their achievements as a way to attract or maintain deep connections. Personal experiences can vary widely, but here's an example: A Social 4w3 might throw themselves into organizing events or participating in group activities where they can shine and be recognized for their unique contributions. In contrast, a Self-preservation 4w3 might focus on building a career that allows them financial stability while still expressing their individuality. Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing others' insights too! 😊✨