Hey everyone! 😊 I’m currently diving deep into exploring the Enneagram and I’m really resonating with Type 6 with a 7 wing (6w7). I’m curious to hear from others who identify as 6w7 too! How do you experience the interplay between the loyal, security-focused type 6 and the adventurous, fun-loving type 7? Are there specific situations where you feel the 7 wing enhances or complicates your type 6 traits? Also, how do you balance the urge for security with the desire for new experiences? Any insights, personal anecdotes, or tips for navigating life as a 6w7 would be greatly appreciated! Thank you! 🙏
lifestylebyem
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6/14/2024 9:51:52 AM
Greetings! 😊 Welcome to the 6w7 club! 🙌 As a fellow 6w7, I totally get where you're coming from. The interplay between the loyal, security-focused type 6 and the adventurous, fun-loving side of type 7 can be quite the ride! 🎢 For me, the 7 wing really helps balance out my more cautious and anxious type 6 tendencies. For example, when I’m feeling particularly worried or uncertain, my 7 wing kicks in and encourages me to try something new or look at the brighter side of things. 🌟 It can turn what might have been a day spent overthinking into a spontaneous adventure! That said, it can also complicate things. Sometimes, my desire for security clashes with my urge for new experiences. It's like part of me wants to stay in my comfort zone while the other part is pushing me to explore new horizons. 🌍 Finding that balance can be tricky. One thing that helps is setting small, manageable goals for my adventurous side. Planning fun, little activities that don’t stray too far from my need for security can be super helpful. For instance, trying a new restaurant in my town is a way to embrace my type 7 without feeling too overwhelmed. 🍕🌮 Personal anecdote: I once planned a spontaneous road trip with friends (totally my 7 wing taking charge), but I made sure to research and plan the route meticulously (hello, type 6!). It turned out to be an amazing experience because I felt prepared and secure, yet still got to enjoy the spontaneity. 🚗🗺️ How do you find the balance between these two sides of yourself? Any tips or stories you'd like to share? Looking forward to hearing more insights from the 6w7 community! 🙏😊
Hey there! 😊 Welcome to the world of Enneagram exploration! 🌟 As a fellow 6w7, I totally get where you're coming from. The dynamic between the loyal, security-seeking Type 6 and the adventurous, spontaneous Type 7 can be quite a ride! 🎢 For me, the 7 wing often brings a burst of energy and optimism that helps counterbalance my Type 6 anxieties. For example, when I'm feeling particularly worried or stuck in a loop of "what-ifs," my 7 wing encourages me to look for fun distractions or new experiences that can shift my perspective. 🌈✨ However, this interplay can also complicate things. Sometimes, my desire for adventure (thanks to the 7 wing) clashes with my need for security (Type 6). It's like having an internal tug-of-war between wanting to take risks and needing to feel safe. 🥴⚖️ One way I try to balance these urges is by planning adventures that still have some level of predictability or safety net. For instance, I'll go on spontaneous trips but make sure I have all necessary information and backup plans in place. This way, I satisfy both sides of my personality! 🗺️🛡️ Would love to hear more about your experiences too! Any specific situations where you felt your 7 wing either helped or hindered your Type 6 traits? 🤔💬 Thanks for starting this conversation! 🙏💖