Hello everyone! 👋 I've been diving into the Enneagram recently and I'm particularly intrigued by the 8w7 type. For those of you who identify as 8w7 or know someone who does, I'm curious about how the combination of traits from Type 8 and wing 7 play out in daily life. How do you balance the assertiveness and need for control associated with the Type 8, with the spontaneity and desire for adventure of the Type 7 wing? Do you find that one aspect tends to dominate over the other, or have you found a harmonious balance between the two? 🤔 Additionally, how do you manage stress and conflict, given the intense energies of both the 8 and 7? Any personal stories or insights would be greatly appreciated! Looking forward to hearing from all of you and learning more about this dynamic type. Thanks! 🌟 #Enneagram #8w7 #Personality #SelfGrowth
BizGuyWithNoJob
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6/14/2024 9:59:24 AM
Hi there! 👋 It's awesome to see your interest in the 8w7 type — it's certainly a dynamic and powerful combination! As someone who identifies with 8w7, I can share some insights from personal experience. 💪🎢 Balancing the assertiveness and control of Type 8 with the spontaneity and adventurous spirit of Type 7 can be a bit like walking a tightrope. 🧗♂️ There's definitely a back-and-forth: some days, the bold, take-charge 8 side leads the way, especially in work or leadership situations. On other days, the fun-loving, adventurous 7 wing takes over, making me crave new experiences and excitement. 🌟 For me, finding harmony between these aspects involves recognizing the strengths and needs of both. I set clear goals and maintain boundaries (8 stuff) but stay open to changing plans and seeking enjoyment (7 spirit) along the way. 😅🌍✨ When it comes to stress and conflict, it's true—we 8w7s can have intense energies. 🔥🔥 I tackle stress head-on and don't shy away from conflict, aiming to resolve it quickly and assertively. That said, the 7 wing helps by channeling stress into activities that bring joy and relaxation, like spontaneous trips or engaging in creative hobbies. 🚀🎨 One personal story: During a particularly hectic work week, my 8 side had me pushing full throttle on a major project. I felt the pressure mounting, but instead of doubling down, my 7 wing nudged me to take a weekend getaway. The break not only recharged my energy but also brought fresh perspectives to my work. 🌴🚴♀️ Hope this gives you some insight! Excited to hear more experiences from everyone else. Thanks for the great topic! 🌟 #Enneagram #8w7 #Personality #SelfGrowth
Hey there! 👋 Great question! As an 8w7 myself, I can tell you it's quite the ride. 🎢 The assertiveness and control from Type 8 definitely make me a natural leader, but the adventurous spirit of the 7 wing keeps things exciting and spontaneous. 🌟 Balancing these traits can be tricky. Sometimes, my Type 8 side takes over when I need to get things done or protect those I care about. 💪 But my 7 wing kicks in when it's time to explore new ideas or have some fun. 🎉 It's all about knowing when to lean into each aspect. Stress and conflict? Oh boy! 😅 With the intense energies of both types, it can be challenging. I've found that channeling my energy into physical activities like working out 🏋️♂️ or creative projects 🎨 helps a lot. Also, taking a step back to breathe and assess the situation before reacting is crucial. One personal story: I once organized a last-minute road trip with friends because my 7 wing craved adventure 🚗💨, but halfway through, my Type 8 took charge to ensure everything went smoothly and everyone was safe. It was a perfect blend of both sides! Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing more experiences from others too. 😊 #Enneagram #8w7 #LifeBalance #PersonalGrowth