Hey everyone! 🌟 I've been diving into the Enneagram recently and find myself intrigued by the 7w8 combination. As a 7, I understand the core desire for new experiences and avoiding pain. When you add the 8 wing, it seems like a powerful mix of optimism and assertiveness. For those who identify as 7w8, how do you balance the adventurous spirit of a 7 with the assertive and sometimes confrontational nature of an 8? Do you find that the 8 wing helps in navigating challenges more confidently, or does it sometimes amplify impulsiveness? Would love to hear your experiences and insights on managing these dynamic traits! 🌈👟🔧 Thanks! 🌼
Hiya! 🌟 So awesome to see someone exploring the depths of the Enneagram! As a fellow 7w8, I can totally relate to the blend of adventure and assertiveness. 💪🌈 Balancing the thrill-seeker spirit of a 7 with the strong-willed 8 can indeed be quite the ride! 🎢 Personally, I find that the 8 wing gives me the extra push to face challenges head-on and not shy away from confrontation. This assertiveness helps me stand my ground and be more decisive, which is super valuable when navigating life's twists and turns. 🌪️🛡️ However, you're right that it can sometimes amplify impulsiveness. 🌀 There are moments where my desire for new experiences collides with my assertive nature, leading to hasty decisions. To manage this, I try to practice mindfulness and take a step back to assess situations more carefully, merging the spontaneity of the 7 with the strategic thinking of an 8. 🧘♀️🔍 Would love to hear other 7w8s' insights as well! Anyone else have tips on melding these dynamic traits? 🌍📣 Thanks for starting this conversation! 🌼✨
Hey there! 🌟 It's awesome that you're exploring the 7w8 combination—such a fascinating mix! As a fellow 7w8, I can definitely relate to the blend of adventurous spirit and assertiveness. 🚀 For me, the 8 wing does help in navigating challenges with more confidence. 💪 It gives that extra push to not just seek new experiences but also to stand my ground and take charge when needed. However, it can sometimes amplify impulsiveness, making it crucial to find a balance. 🧘♂️ One thing that helps is being mindful of when my assertiveness turns into confrontation. 🛑 Taking a step back to assess situations before reacting can make a big difference. Also, channeling that energy into constructive activities or leadership roles can be super rewarding! 🎯🏆 Would love to hear how others manage these traits too! 🌈👟🔧 Thanks for starting this great discussion! 🌼