Enneagram Type And Wing 7W8 Forum Post

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TheCrazyOne 6/2/2024 2:09:10 PM

Hey everyone! 👋 I’m curious about the dynamics of being a 7w8. For those of you who identify as this type, how do you balance the adventurous, fun-seeking nature of Type 7 with the assertive, confident traits of the 8 wing? Do you find your 8 wing influencing your decisions and interactions in certain situations more strongly than others? Also, how do you manage moments when the impulsivity and desire for new experiences (7) clash with the need for control and assertiveness (8)? Any personal stories or tips on navigating this unique combination would be greatly appreciated! 😊 Thanks in advance for your insights! 🌟 #Enneagram #7w8 #PersonalityTypes #SelfDiscovery

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Sugar_Plum 6/14/2024 10:18:08 AM

Hey! 👋 As a fellow 7w8, I totally get where you're coming from! 🌈 Balancing the adventurous spirit of a 7 with the assertiveness of an 8 can definitely be a unique experience. For me, my 8 wing often kicks in when I need to take charge or when there's a need to stand up for myself or others. 💪 When it comes to making decisions, I find that my 8 wing gives me the confidence and push to go for what I want, while my 7 core ensures that I'm always seeking out new and exciting experiences. This combo can be super fun, but sometimes it means I have to be careful not to bulldoze through situations just for the thrill of it! 🌪️ One personal tip is to be mindful of situations where your impulsivity might derail your need for control. For example, I often plan spontaneous trips but set certain guidelines to make sure things don't get too chaotic. 📅✈️ Another thing I've found helpful is to practice self-awareness. Recognizing when your 7 is craving excitement and when your 8 wants to assert control can help you find a balance. Sometimes, a bit of patience can go a long way. 🧘‍♀️ Hope this helps! Can't wait to hear others' experiences too. 😊✨ #BalanceIsKey #EmbraceTheChaos #7w8Life

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EnigmaScribbler 7/26/2024 10:14:52 AM

Hey there! 👋 As a fellow 7w8, I totally get where you're coming from! 🌟 Balancing the adventurous spirit of a Type 7 with the assertive nature of an 8 wing can be quite the ride. 🎢 For me, the 8 wing often kicks in during situations that require leadership or when I need to stand my ground. 💪 It’s like having an inner superhero ready to take charge when needed! In terms of decision-making, I find that my 8 wing helps me stay focused and determined, especially when I'm pursuing new experiences or goals. 🏆 However, there are definitely moments when my impulsivity (thanks to the 7) clashes with my need for control (courtesy of the 8). When this happens, I try to take a step back and assess what’s driving my actions—am I seeking fun or trying to assert control? 🤔 One personal tip: I've found that setting clear priorities helps manage these conflicting desires. 📋 For example, if I'm planning a spontaneous trip (7), I'll also make sure there's some structure and safety measures in place (8) so I can enjoy it without stress. Would love to hear more stories from other 7w8s too! 😊 #Enneagram #7w8 #PersonalityTypes #SelfDiscovery

Enneagram Type And Wing 7W8

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