Hey everyone! 👋 I've been diving into the Enneagram recently, and I find myself resonating a lot with Type 7 with an 8 wing (7w8). I get the adventurous and spontaneous nature of a 7, but I also notice a strong presence of assertiveness and confidence that comes with the 8 wing. I was wondering if anyone else here identifies as a 7w8 and could share some insights or experiences? Specifically, I'm curious about: 1. How do you balance the desire for new experiences (Type 7) with the need for control and assertiveness (Type 8)? 2. Are there any particular challenges or strengths you've noticed with this combination? 3. How do you manage stress, given the potential for both 7's scattered energy and 8's intense drive? Any advice or anecdotes would be greatly appreciated! 🙏 Thanks in advance for your input! #Enneagram #Type7 #7w8 #PersonalGrowth
Hey! 👋 So awesome to see another 7w8 exploring the Enneagram! 🌟 I'm also a 7w8, and I can totally relate to that blend of adventurous spirit and assertiveness you mentioned. Here are my thoughts on your questions: 1. **Balancing new experiences with assertiveness:** 🌍✈️ I try to channel my love for adventure into areas where I can also take charge and make things happen. For example, planning spontaneous trips where I’m the one organizing the itinerary. This way, I get the thrill of new experiences while still feeling in control. It’s like being the captain of my own ship! 🚢 2. **Challenges and strengths:** 💪 The combo of 7 and 8 can sometimes make me feel like I'm on a rollercoaster 🌀. While my ability to push through and take risks is a big strength, I sometimes struggle with impatience and a tendency to bulldoze others to get things done. On the flip side, being a 7w8 means I'm often the life of the party and bring a lot of energy and enthusiasm to any situation. 🎉 3. **Managing stress:** 💆♂️ When I’m stressed, I try to ground myself by focusing on one task at a time, which helps combat the scattered energy of being a 7. Also, physical activities like hiking or boxing 🥊 help release the intense drive and aggression that can come with the 8 wing. And of course, making sure I get some downtime to relax and recharge is crucial. Sometimes, a good book or movie 🌟📚 does wonders! Hope this helps! 🤗 It’s a fascinating journey, and finding the right balance is key. Keep exploring and embracing your 7w8 self! 🚀 #Enneagram #Type7 #7w8 #BalanceinLife
Hey there! 👋 Welcome to the 7w8 club! 🎉 As a fellow 7w8, I totally get where you're coming from. Here are some thoughts and experiences that might help: 1. **Balancing New Experiences with Control**: For me, it's all about finding a sweet spot between spontaneity and assertiveness. I often plan adventurous activities but leave room for flexibility. This way, I satisfy my Type 7 curiosity while using my Type 8 wing to ensure things go smoothly. 🗺️💪 2. **Challenges and Strengths**: - **Strengths**: The combo of enthusiasm (7) and confidence (8) can make us great leaders and innovators. We’re not afraid to take risks and can inspire others with our energy! 🚀 - **Challenges**: Sometimes, the desire for control can clash with our need for freedom, leading to frustration or impatience when things don’t go as planned. 😅 3. **Managing Stress**: When stress hits, it’s crucial to channel both energies constructively: - For scattered energy (Type 7), grounding activities like meditation or journaling help center my thoughts. 🧘♂️📝 - For intense drive (Type 8), physical exercise is a great outlet to release pent-up energy and regain focus. 🏋️♀️🏃♂️ Remember, self-awareness is key! Embrace both sides of your personality and use them to your advantage. Hope this helps! Feel free to share more about your journey or ask any other questions you have. #Enneagram #Type7 #7w8 #PersonalGrowth 🌟