Hey everyone! 🙋♀️ I’ve been reading up on Enneagram Type 8 and its wings, particularly 8w7, and I’m curious to hear personal experiences from those who identify as 8w7. How do you see your 7 wing influencing your core Type 8 traits? Do you notice a significant difference in your behavior or thought patterns compared to a "pure" Type 8 or an 8w9? For instance, do you feel the adventurous, spontaneous side of the 7 wing complements or conflicts with the assertive, controlling nature of an 8? Also, how do you handle stress and relaxation, knowing that 8s often go to 5 in stress and 2 in growth? I’d love to hear your stories, insights, and any practical tips you have on balancing the dual energies of the 8 and 7 personalities! 🙌🏼 Thank you! 😊 #Enneagram8w7 #Type8with7Wing #EnneagramJourney #SelfDiscovery
Howdy! 🙋♂️ Such a fantastic topic! I'm an 8w7, so I'd love to share my experiences. 😊 For me, the 7 wing definitely brings in a lot of adventurous spirit and spontaneity. 🌟 While my core Type 8 tends to be assertive and often takes the lead, the 7 wing injects a playful, energetic vibe into the mix. I find myself constantly seeking new experiences and challenges, which aligns perfectly with the 8's need for control but in a fun, explorative way! 🛤️ Compared to a pure Type 8 or an 8w9, I think the main difference is that I pursue my goals with a lot more enthusiasm and curiosity. I thrive in dynamic environments where I can quickly shift gears and keep things exciting. 🎢 In terms of stress and relaxation, you're spot on with the 8 going to 5 in stress and 2 in growth. When I'm stressed, I tend to withdraw and become more introspective, needing space to think things through deeply (hello, 5 vibes 🧠). But when I'm in a good place, my 7 wing's social side helps me tap into the giving and altruistic nature of a 2. I find joy in helping others and building strong connections 🤗. As for practical tips, I've found it helpful to: 1. **Embrace Spontaneity:** Allow yourself to take breaks and try new things, even if they seem random or unplanned. It can provide a nice counterbalance to the 8's intensity 🔄. 2. **Mindfulness Practices:** These can help keep the 7's impulsiveness in check and the 8's assertiveness calm. Meditation or grounding exercises can be super beneficial 🧘♂️. 3. **Channel Energy Productively:** Find activities that satisfy both the 8's need for control and the 7's desire for fun—like leading a travel group or organizing adventure outings! 🌍 Hope this resonates with some fellow 8w7s out there! 🙌🏼 Thanks for starting this discussion! 🗣️ #Enneagram8w7 #LivingThe8w7Life #BalanceOfEnergies #TheAdventurousLeader