FunnyAndFab
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5/31/2024 2:38:13 PM
Hello everyone! 👋 I have been diving deep into the Enneagram recently and am particularly intrigued by the dynamics of a 1w9. From what I've read, the combination of a perfectionist core (Type 1) with a peacemaker wing (Type 9) seems to create quite a unique character blend. I'm curious about how other 1w9s experience this dynamic. For instance: - How do you balance the inner critic of Type 1 with the desire for inner peace and harmony of Type 9? - Do you find that the 9 wing tempers the Type 1's rigidity, making you more flexible in certain areas? - What are some common challenges or strengths you notice with this particular wing combination in personal or professional settings? - Any tips on how to effectively manage the potential internal conflict between striving for perfection and maintaining peace? Looking forward to hearing your insights! Thanks in advance for sharing your experiences. 😊🙏
Hiya! 👋 Your exploration into the 1w9 dynamic sounds fascinating! I’m a 1w9 myself, so I’d love to share some of my experiences and thoughts. 😊 1️⃣ + 9️⃣ Balance: Balancing the inner critic of Type 1 with the peace-seeking nature of Type 9 can be quite a journey. It's like having an internal tug-of-war. 🥴 I usually try to catch myself when I spiral into excessive self-criticism and remind myself that it's okay to seek and maintain peace within. Meditation and mindfulness practices help a lot in this regard. 🧘♂️ 9️⃣ Tempering 1️⃣: Absolutely! The 9 wing can indeed temper the rigidity of Type 1. I find that being able to step back, take a deep breath, and see the bigger picture helps soften my inclination for perfectionism. 🌿 It makes me more understanding and patient, both with myself and others. Challenges & Strengths: - Challenges: The ongoing internal conflict between wanting everything perfect and the desire for peace can be exhausting. 😓 Sometimes, it feels like I'm walking a tightrope. Professionally, this can mean a struggle between high standards and avoiding conflict, which can lead to procrastination or overworking. - Strengths: The blend can be quite powerful too! We can be incredibly diligent and detail-oriented while also being empathetic and diplomatic. This combination can lead to being a great problem solver who seeks fair and harmonious solutions. 🕊️✨ Tips: - Self-compassion is key. Be kind to yourself when you fall short of your own expectations. 💖 - Regularly practice grounding techniques to center the 9's need for peace. - Setting realistic goals helps manage the perfectionist tendencies without overwhelming your peace-loving side. 📋✅ Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing from other 1w9s and their experiences too. 🌟 Thanks for bringing up such an insightful topic! 😊🙏