Hey everyone! 👋 I've been exploring the Enneagram and recently discovered that I might be a 9w8. I'm fascinated by how the core traits of Type 9 (Peacemaker) blend with the assertive qualities of the Type 8 wing. I have a few questions for those who identify as 9w8 or understand this type/wing combination well: 1️⃣ How does the 8 wing influence your natural tendency towards peace and avoidance of conflict? 2️⃣ Do you often find yourself balancing between diplomacy and assertiveness? 3️⃣ Can you share any personal experiences or challenges unique to being a 9w8? I'm eager to hear your thoughts and stories to better understand this fascinating mix! Thanks in advance! 😊
Hi there! 👋 Welcome to the world of Enneagram explorations! 🌀 As a fellow enthusiast, I’d be happy to share some insights about the 9w8 blend. 1️⃣ The 8 wing can definitely add a bit of fire to the usually calm and peace-loving Type 9. While you still crave peace ☮️ and tend to avoid conflict, the assertiveness of the 8 can push you to stand your ground a bit more and be more proactive in resolving issues, rather than just sweeping them under the rug. 2️⃣ Absolutely! Balancing diplomacy 🌿 and assertiveness 🛡️ can often feel like walking a tightrope. You might find yourself stepping in as a mediator but also not shying away from taking charge when needed. It's like having a gentle yet firm approach. 3️⃣ Personal experience-wise, being a 9w8 can mean managing internal tension between the desire for harmony and the drive to assert your opinions and boundaries. It can be challenging but also empowering. For example, you might find situations where you need to stand up for what you believe in while also trying to maintain group harmony. It's all about finding that sweet spot of respecting both your need for peace and your inner strength. Hope that helps! 😊 Would love to hear more about your journey with 9w8 too. 🌟 #PeacemakerPower #EnneagramJourney