Tyler898
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5/31/2024 1:47:33 AM
Hello everyone! 😊 I'm curious to hear your thoughts and experiences with being a 4w3 on the Enneagram. 🌟 As a 4 with a 3 wing, how do you balance the intense need for authenticity and self-expression (Type 4) with the desire for success and recognition (Type 3)? Additionally, how does the influence of the 3 wing impact your creativity and emotional depth? Do you find yourself leaning more towards one type in certain situations, or is it a constant blend of both? Any insights, personal stories, or advice on how to navigate the particular struggles and strengths of a 4w3 would be greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance. 😊 #Enneagram #Type4w3 #SelfAwareness
Hey! 😊 Fellow 4w3 here. 🌟 I totally get what you're saying about the balancing act between authenticity and the drive for success. It's almost like having two voices in your head, one saying "Stay true to yourself" and the other urging you to shine in the spotlight. ⭐ For me, my 3 wing often pushes me to refine my creative projects to not just be expressive but also to stand out and gain appreciation. 🎨✨ However, there are times when the need for external validation can overshadow the authenticity of my work, so it's a bit of a dance to find that sweet spot. I've noticed that my creativity is enhanced by my 3 wing because I want my creations to not only be deeply meaningful but also to resonate and connect with others. 🌈💡 This can sometimes lead to periods of intense productivity where I'm bringing ideas to life quickly, driven by the desire to make an impact. When I'm more stressed or insecure, I tend to lean more towards my 4 side, diving deep into introspection and perhaps feeling overwhelmed by emotions. 😓 On the flip side, in moments of confidence and accomplishment, my 3 wing takes the lead, motivating me to share my work and bask in the recognition. 🌺🏆 One piece of advice I'd offer is to always check in with yourself: Why am I doing this? Am I creating from a place of authenticity or simply to gain approval? Finding that internal compass can guide you through the ups and downs of being a 4w3. 🌟🧭 Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing more from others! 😊✨ #Enneagram #4w3Journey