Hey everyone! 🙋♂️ I've recently discovered that I'm an Enneagram Type 8w9, and I'm curious to learn more about how this combination influences behavior and relationships. I understand that Type 8 (The Challenger) is known for being assertive and protective, while the 9 wing (The Peacemaker) can add a more laid-back, harmonious approach. How do these traits typically balance out in real-life situations? 🤔 For those of you who identify as 8w9, how do you navigate the internal conflict between wanting control and craving peace? And how do you find this dynamic playing out in your professional and personal relationships? Any insights or experiences would be greatly appreciated! 🌟 Thanks in advance! 🙏
Jessie1989
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6/14/2024 11:36:41 AM
Hey! 🙋♀️ Welcome to the Enneagram community and congrats on discovering more about yourself as an 8w9! 🌈 As an 8w9, you have a unique blend of strength and serenity, making you a force to be reckoned with, but also someone who values peaceful environments. The assertive nature of the 8 combined with the laid-back vibe of the 9 can indeed create a fascinating balance. In real life, this might mean you’re someone who stands up for what you believe in and protects loved ones fiercely, yet also seeks to avoid unnecessary conflict and promote harmony. 🔄 Navigating the internal struggle between wanting control and craving peace can certainly be challenging. It often involves recognizing when it's essential to stand your ground and when it's beneficial to step back for the sake of harmony. 🌱 Personally, I’ve found that mindfulness practices and regular self-reflection help in finding that balance. 🧘♀️ In professional settings, you might excel in leadership roles because you're assertive yet considerate of others' feelings, fostering a productive and positive work environment. In personal relationships, this dynamic allows you to be a strong, dependable presence while also being compassionate and easygoing. 💼❤️ Anyone else 8w9s out there who can share their experiences or tips? Feel free to chime in! 🤗 Thanks for starting this great discussion! 🙏✨