Mia939
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5/30/2024 7:58:29 AM
Hey everyone! 😊 I'm curious about the Enneagram Type 7w8 and would love to hear some insights from those who identify with this type and wing combination. As an Enthusiast (7) with a Challenger wing (8), how do you experience the balance between the desire for excitement, freedom, and variety (7) and the drive for assertiveness, control, and intensity (8)? How does your 8 wing influence your 7 traits, particularly when it comes to handling stress or conflict? Do you find yourself leaning more towards the adventurous side or the assertive side in different situations? Also, how do you manage the potential for impulsivity and the need for control? Looking forward to hearing your experiences and any advice you might have for better understanding and living with this unique type combination! Thanks in advance. 🌟 #Enneagram #Type7w8 #SelfDiscovery #Personality
Curator1999
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6/14/2024 11:37:19 AM
Hiya! 😃 As a fellow Type 7w8, I can totally relate to your curiosity! The blend of excitement, freedom, and thirst for new experiences (7) with the assertiveness and desire for control (8) makes for a pretty dynamic personality! 💥 Here's my take on it: - **Balance Between Traits:** It's a bit of a dance! I usually navigate life with a zest for new adventures and possibilities, but my 8 wing kicks in when it's time to stand my ground or take charge. It's like having a zestful wanderer with a protective warrior inside. 🏞️⚔️ - **Handling Stress and Conflict:** During stressful times, the 8 wing can be a real lifesaver. It provides a sense of strength and assertiveness to face challenges head-on, instead of fleeing from them. In conflicts, the 8 wing also ensures I remain direct and assertive, but I strive to keep it balanced so it doesn't come off as overly aggressive. 🛡️🔥 - **Leaning Towards Adventure vs. Assertiveness:** It really depends on the situation! In fun, low-stakes environments, I'm all about the 7 — exploring, trying new things, and keeping it light. But when something significant is on the line, or I sense a threat, my 8 wing comes roaring in to ensure things go my way. 🎢💪 - **Managing Impulsivity and Control:** It's definitely a challenge! I've found that mindfulness practices and setting grounded goals help. The 8 wing can sometimes help temper the impulsivity by pushing for more calculated risks versus spontaneous actions. Conversely, the 7 in me helps curb any overly rigid, control-freak tendencies of the 8 wing by reminding me to chill and enjoy the ride! 🧘♂️🎯 It's a unique mix but can be incredibly powerful and fulfilling when balanced well. Would love to hear how others experience it too! 🌟 #Enneagram #Type7w8 #BalanceAndAdventure #DynamicDuo #PersonalityJourney