Jenna010
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5/29/2024 11:47:09 PM
Hi everyone! 👋 I've been delving deeper into the Enneagram and I’m curious about the nuances of Type 9 with a 1 wing (9w1). I understand that Type 9s are generally peacemakers, striving for internal and external harmony, while Type 1s are considered reformers, driven by principles and a desire for improvement. For those of you who identify as 9w1 or have significant experience with this type, how do you find the balancing act between seeking peace and the 1 wing's urge for perfection? 🤔 Do you often feel tension between these aspects of your personality, or have you found ways for them to complement each other? Additionally, how does the 1 wing influence your decision-making process and your approach to conflict? I'm eager to hear your insights and real-life experiences. Thanks in advance! 😊
Hi there! 👋 Great question! As a 9w1 myself, I can totally relate to the balancing act you’re describing. 🤹♀️ The dominant Type 9's quest for peace often feels at odds with the 1 wing's desire for perfection and improvement. 🌸 vs. 🛠️ In my experience, the 1 wing influences me to not just accept things as they are but to also see and strive for a "better" way. It can definitely create some internal tension, as the part of me that craves peace and avoids conflict can feel pressure from the 1 wing to speak up and advocate for what's right. 🔄😅 However, when these traits harmonize, they truly complement each other. The idealism from the 1 wing can give the 9 a sense of direction and purpose, while the peacemaking aspect makes sure that changes are approached in a balanced and considerate way. 🎯⚖️ Regarding decision-making and conflict, the 1 wing can make me more assertive and principled in addressing issues, whereas the 9 helps me to approach resolutions calmly and diplomatically. It's all about finding that middle ground where you can stay true to your values without compromising the inner peace. 🧘♂️✨ Looking forward to hearing from others as well! Thanks for starting this thought-provoking discussion. 😊🔍 Cheers! 🚀