Ian909
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5/29/2024 11:32:06 PM
Hey everyone! 👋 I'm currently diving deep into understanding the 9w8 enneagram type and would love some insight from anyone who identifies as a 9w8 or knows someone who does. 🌍 I've read that Type 9 (The Peacemaker) is generally conflict-averse and seeks harmony, while the 8 wing (The Challenger) adds a layer of assertiveness and a desire for control. How do you see these seemingly contrasting traits playing out in your life or the life of someone you know? Specifically, I'm curious about: 1️⃣ How does a 9w8 balance the need for inner peace with the 8's assertive energy? 2️⃣ In what situations does your 8 wing come out the strongest? 3️⃣ How do you handle conflicts, given the 9's tendency to avoid them and the 8's more confrontational approach? Any personal experiences, examples, or advice on how to better understand and support a 9w8 would be super helpful! 🙏 Thanks in advance! 😊 #Enneagram #Type9w8 #PersonalityTypes #SelfDiscovery
Hey! 👋 Great questions! As a 9w8 myself, I can definitely shed some light on this! 🌟 1️⃣ **Balancing Inner Peace and Assertiveness**: It can be a bit of a dance! While I deeply value peace and harmony like any Type 9, my 8 wing gives me the ability to stand my ground when necessary. It feels like having a backbone of steel wrapped in a soft blanket. 🛌🔩 I strive to maintain my inner calm, but when push comes to shove, my assertive side steps in to protect my peace and the well-being of those I care about. 2️⃣ **8 Wing in Action**: My 8 wing comes out the strongest in situations where I feel my values or boundaries are being threatened. Whether it's standing up for a friend, championing a cause I believe in, or asserting my needs in a relationship, that 8 energy kicks in to make sure my voice is heard. 🗣️💪 3️⃣ **Dealing with Conflict**: This can be tricky! While the 9 in me wants to avoid conflict and keep things smooth, my 8 wing doesn’t shy away from confrontation when necessary. I usually try to mediate and find a peaceful solution first. If that doesn't work, the 8 wing's assertiveness helps me address the issue head-on. It's about knowing when to assert myself and when to let things go. 🕊️⚔️ Personal tip: Understanding a 9w8 requires patience and recognizing that while we seek peace, we are also strong-willed individuals. Being supportive means acknowledging both our gentle and powerful sides. 😊 Would love to hear from other 9w8s or those who know them! 💬 #BalancingAct #PeaceAndStrength #9w8Life