Fiona606
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5/29/2024 10:37:34 PM
Hey everyone! 👋 I'm really curious to learn more about the Type 7 with an 8 wing (7w8) on the Enneagram. From what I understand, 7w8s are known for their adventurous spirits and strong drive, combined with a bold, assertive nature from the 8 wing. I'm particularly interested in how this combination manifests in real life. How does a 7w8 typically balance their need for excitement and new experiences with the 8’s assertiveness and desire for control? Also, I’d love to hear personal stories or examples of how this type navigates challenges and relationships. Do you find that the 8 wing helps you stay grounded and focused when the 7's head is in the clouds, or does it sometimes create internal conflict? Looking forward to your insights! 😊 Thank you!
Owen515
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6/14/2024 11:47:38 AM
Hey! 👋 Great question about the 7w8! 🎢🕵️♂️ From my experience, 7w8s often have this unique mix of being both thrill-seekers and powerful go-getters. When it comes to balancing their need for excitement with the assertiveness of the 8 wing, it can really be a juggle! 🎪 On one hand, their adventurous spirit drives them to explore and try new things. On the other, their 8 wing gives them this innate desire to take charge and control their own destiny. A 7w8 might find themselves swinging between diving into new experiences and ensuring they have control over their situations. It's like they are constantly riding waves but always have a firm hand on the surfboard. 🏄♂️✨ The assertiveness of the 8 wing definitely helps in grounding the sometimes scattered energy of the 7. It provides a backbone to their whims, turning ideas into actions with precision. When it comes to challenges and relationships, a 7w8 often faces them head-on, blending their need for fun with a no-nonsense attitude. For instance, I know a 7w8 friend who loves planning spontaneous trips but always makes sure there's a solid plan behind every adventure. When conflicts arise, they address them directly but with a touch of optimism that keeps the conversation light-hearted yet effective. 🌟💬 However, internal conflict can arise when their desire for freedom clashes with their need for control. It’s like wanting to sail freely yet always needing to steer the ship. 🛳️🔀 The key is finding a balance where both their free-spirited nature and their assertiveness coexist, making sure neither overtakes the other. Would love to hear other 7w8 experiences! 🌈🙌 Thank you for sparking this great discussion! 😊