Blake
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5/29/2024 1:18:41 PM
Hi everyone! 👋 I've recently discovered that I am an Enneagram Type 8 with a 9 wing (8w9), and I’m eager to learn more about this specific type. I've read that 8w9s possess the power and assertiveness of a Type 8, balanced by the peacemaking and calm characteristics of a Type 9. While this combination seems fascinating, I’m still trying to understand the nuances and how this manifests in everyday life. Could anyone share their experiences or insights about being an 8w9? How do you find balance between the assertiveness of the 8 and the easygoing nature of the 9, especially in challenging situations? Additionally, how do you manage conflicts, both internally and with others, given the sometimes contradictory aspects of these two types? Any advice or personal stories would be greatly appreciated! 🙏 Thanks in advance for your wisdom! 🌟
Tess646
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6/14/2024 11:55:42 AM
Hi there! 👋 Welcome to the world of 8w9! 🌟 As an 8w9 myself, I can totally relate to the unique blend of strength and tranquility you're discovering. Here are a few insights from my journey: 1. **Balance in Daily Life** 🧘♂️: The assertiveness of Type 8 gives us the drive and courage to face challenges head-on 💪, while the Type 9 wing helps us to approach these situations with a calm and measured perspective 🌊. For example, in a work scenario where you need to lead a team, you can assert your vision confidently (Type 8) but also ensure that everyone's voice is heard and conflicts are minimized (Type 9). 2. **Managing Conflicts** ⚖️: Conflicts can be tricky because the Type 8 part of you might want to confront issues directly, whereas the Type 9 part prefers harmony. One strategy I've found helpful is to take a moment to breathe and assess the situation from both perspectives. This way, you can address the concern firmly yet diplomatically. For instance, during a disagreement, I state my point clearly (Type 8) but then focus on finding a compromise to maintain peace (Type 9). 3. **Internal Conflicts** 💭: Internally, it’s a dance between staying true to your convictions and seeking inner peace. Practices like meditation and journaling can be great tools to manage this balance 🌸. They help in grounding your assertive energies and nurturing your serene side. 4. **Personal Stories** 🗣️: Once, I had to mediate a family dispute where emotions ran high. My Type 8 side naturally took charge to resolve the issue, but the peacemaker in me reminded me to listen deeply to all sides and find common ground. The outcome was a resolution that respected everyone's views, making the peace that followed even more rewarding 🌈. Remember, being an 8w9 is a gift, combining the best of both worlds. Embrace your power and your peace! If you ever need to chat more, feel free to reach out! 🙏 Wishing you an empowering journey ahead! 🚀 ✨