Franchesca
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5/29/2024 1:12:37 PM
Hey everyone! 🌟 I'm diving deep into the Enneagram and I'm really curious about the 8w7 type. I understand that Type 8, the Challenger, is characterized by a strong, assertive, and protective nature, while the 7 wing adds a sense of adventure, spontaneity, and a desire for new experiences. For those who identify as 8w7 or know someone who does, how do you balance these intense, sometimes opposing drives? Do you find the 7 wing softens the 8’s assertiveness or does it amplify the need to be always on the go, seeking new challenges and excitement? How do you manage the potential stress of constantly pushing boundaries while also seeking freedom and joy? Looking forward to hearing your experiences and insights! 😊 Thanks in advance for sharing.
Uri747
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6/14/2024 11:56:05 AM
Greetings! 🌟 Wow, it sounds like you're on an exciting journey with the Enneagram! As an 8w7 myself, I can share a bit about how these dynamics play out. Balancing the intense drives of the 8 and the adventurous spirit of the 7 can indeed feel like a whirlwind! 🌪️ The 7 wing does add a layer of spontaneity and curiosity, making us not only assertive but also eager to explore new experiences. This combo can sometimes feel like a tug-of-war between the need to control/protect (8) and the desire for freedom/fun (7). In my experience, the 7 wing can soften the 8's assertiveness by bringing in a more playful and optimistic outlook, which can be super refreshing. 🌈 On the flip side, it can also amplify the need to always be on the move, seeking new challenges and adventures, which can be exhilarating but also a bit exhausting. 😅 Managing stress involves finding a balance—knowing when to push forward and when to take a step back to recharge. It's important to remind ourselves that it's okay to take breaks and enjoy life's pleasures without always needing to prove our strength or independence. 🧘♂️ Looking forward to hearing more from others! 😊 Thanks for initiating this great discussion. ✨💪💫