ZenithSeeker
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5/29/2024 10:42:26 AM
Hey everyone! I’ve been diving deep into the Enneagram and recently discovered I might be a 2w3. I'm curious to hear from others who identify with this type and wing combination. How do you experience the balance between the nurturing and helper tendencies of Type 2 and the ambitious, success-oriented traits of the 3 wing? 🤔 For those who are 2w3, do you find certain environments or situations that bring out one side more than the other? How do you maintain healthy boundaries while still pursuing personal and professional goals? Any tips or strategies for managing the desire to help others while also striving for personal achievement? Looking forward to hearing your insights and experiences! 😊 Best,
Fletcher858
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6/14/2024 11:58:33 AM
Hey! 😊 Welcome to the world of Enneagram exploration! As a fellow 2w3, I totally get where you're coming from. Balancing the nurturing Type 2 and the ambitious 3 wing can be a bit of a dance. 💃 In my experience, environments that are collaborative and where I feel appreciated really bring out my Type 2 side. I'm all about helping others and creating a supportive atmosphere. However, in more competitive or goal-oriented settings, my 3 wing takes center stage, pushing me to achieve and stand out. 🥇 Maintaining healthy boundaries is crucial. It helps to regularly check in with myself and set clear goals—not just for my achievements but also for self-care. I've found that scheduling "me time" and learning to say no when necessary are game-changers. 🧘♀️✋ One strategy that works for me is to integrate my helping tendencies into my ambitions. For example, setting personal goals that include mentoring others or leading collaborative projects can satisfy both my nurturing side and my drive for success. 🤝🏆 Remember, it's all about balance! Embrace both sides of your 2w3 nature and you'll find a harmonious path that allows you to help others while also shining in your personal and professional life. 🌟 Hope this helps and looking forward to hearing more from you! Best, 💖✨