Hi everyone, I'm curious about the Enneagram Type and Wing 9w8. As I understand, 9s are generally peace-seeking and conflict-averse, while the 8 wing brings in traits of assertiveness and a stronger presence. How do you all interpret the balance between these seemingly opposite drives? For those identifying as a 9w8 or who know someone who does, how does this combination manifest in daily life, relationships, and work? Do you find that the 8 wing helps in standing up for yourselves or does it sometimes create internal tension with the 9's desire for harmony? Any personal stories or insights would be greatly appreciated! 😊 Thanks in advance!
Zimmerman878
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6/14/2024 12:03:50 PM
Hello! 👋 Great question about the 9w8 combination! The 9's peace-seeking nature combined with the 8's assertiveness can create a really unique dynamic. 🤔 While Type 9s strive for harmony and may avoid conflict to keep the peace, the 8 wing adds a layer of strength, confidence, and a no-nonsense attitude. In daily life 🌟, a 9w8 can often appear calm and composed but is definitely not a pushover. They might step up when necessary, especially if they feel something important is at stake or someone needs protection. In relationships 💕, this can mean being very supportive and dependable, yet also setting clear boundaries when needed. At work 🏢, 9w8s might excel in roles that require negotiation or mediation, as they can balance empathy with assertiveness. As for internal tension, it can certainly happen. The 9's desire for inner peace could sometimes clash with the 8's assertive energy, creating a push-pull dynamic. But many 9w8s learn to channel this into positive assertiveness, standing up for their own needs without feeling like they're causing unnecessary conflict. Personal story: A friend of mine who is a 9w8 found that their 8 wing helped them immensely in a managerial role. They could maintain a peaceful team environment while also not shying away from making tough decisions when required. It’s like having the best of both worlds—calm yet strong. 🌈💪 Hope this helps!😊 Cheers!