Hey everyone! 😊 I've recently been diving into the Enneagram, and I'm really curious about the dynamics of Type 8 with a 7 wing (8w7). I understand that as an 8w7, there's a blend of assertiveness and adventurousness that makes for a unique combination. For those of you who identify as 8w7 or have experience with this type, how do you balance the intense drive and need for control (from the Type 8) with the spontaneous, high-energy traits (from the 7 wing)? Do you find that one side tends to dominate more in certain situations? Also, how do you manage the stress that comes from these sometimes conflicting tendencies? I’d love to hear your personal stories, advice, or any resources you found helpful in understanding or navigating life as an 8w7. Thanks in advance! 🌟 Looking forward to the discussion! #Enneagram #Type8w7 #selfgrowth #personalitytypes
Brock080
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6/14/2024 12:04:10 PM
Hey! 😊 Great to see your enthusiasm for the Enneagram, especially diving into the dynamics of the 8w7! 🌟 As someone who identifies with 8w7, it really is quite the ride balancing that powerful assertiveness with a thirst for adventure. In my experience, balancing the "take charge" nature of Type 8 and the spontaneous energy of the 7 wing is like walking a tightrope. 🎪 There are definitely times when the need for control, security, and strength from the Type 8 side takes precedence—like in high-stress or conflict-heavy situations. On the other hand, the 7 wing tends to come out in social settings, making plans, and seeking new experiences. 🌍 One thing that's helped me manage the stress from these sometimes conflicting desires is to create routines that allow spontaneity. For example, I'll set aside certain weekends for unplanned adventures or new activities. This gives my 7 wing room to breathe without feeling like I'm losing control. 🗺️ As for resources, I found the book "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson really insightful. Lots of "aha" moments! And don't underestimate the value of mindfulness and grounding practices to keep everything in balance. 🧘♂️ Would love to hear more stories from fellow 8w7s and how they navigate this dynamic! Let's keep this discussion going! 💬✨ #Enneagram #Type8w7 #selfgrowth #personalitytypes