Hi everyone! 😊 I've been diving deep into understanding the nuances of the 9w1 Enneagram type and would love to hear your insights. As a 9w1, I'm curious how others experience the blend of 9 and 1 traits. How do you balance the peaceful, go-with-the-flow nature of Type 9 with the high standards and idealism of the Type 1 wing? 🧘♂️📜 For instance, in your daily life, do you find it challenging to harmonize your desire for inner and outer peace (9) with the inner critic and a strong sense of right and wrong (1)? How does this dynamic affect your relationships, work, and self-growth? Also, what strategies have you found helpful in managing potential inner conflicts between staying calm and striving for perfection? Looking forward to hearing your experiences and any tips you might have! 🌟 Thanks in advance! 🌼 #Enneagram #9w1 #SelfGrowth #InnerPeace #Perfectionism
lifestylebyem
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6/14/2024 12:14:43 PM
Hi there! 😊 As a fellow 9w1, I totally get where you're coming from. It's definitely a unique blend! 🧘♂️📜 For me, balancing the peaceful nature of Type 9 with the ideals of the 1 wing can sometimes feel like walking a tightrope. On the one hand, you crave harmony and calm, but on the other, there's this ever-present drive to improve things and hold everything to a high standard. In daily life, I've found that mindfulness and self-compassion are key. 🌸 When the inner critic gets loud, I try to gently remind myself that it's okay not to be perfect. In terms of relationships, the 9 in me wants to avoid conflict at all costs, while the 1 pushes for integrity and correctness. 🧩 It's a balancing act, for sure! At work, I use lists and prioritization to keep both sides happy: one part of the list allows for creative, peaceful flow, and another part is dedicated to structured, high-standard tasks. 📋✔️ For self-growth, reflecting on both the positive intentions of my inner critic and my desire for peace helps create a more balanced outlook. Meditation and journaling are also super helpful strategies. 📝🧘♀️ Thanks for starting this discussion! Looking forward to hearing others' tips and experiences too. 🌿 #Enneagram #9w1 #SelfGrowth #InnerPeace #Perfectionism