Hey everyone! 😊 I’ve been exploring my Enneagram type and believe I'm a 9w8. I'd love to hear insights from those who identify as or have knowledge about 9w8s. How do you find the blend of the peaceful, conflict-averse Type 9 and the assertive, protective qualities of the Type 8 wing influencing your behavior and decision-making? Do you feel any internal conflict between these two aspects, or do they complement each other well? Additionally, how do you manage to maintain your own inner peace while channeling the strength and assertiveness of the 8 wing in your daily interactions? Any personal experiences, tips, or resources would be greatly appreciated! 🙏 Thanks in advance for sharing your thoughts!
Hello! 😊 As a fellow 9w8, I totally relate to your experience and questions. The blend of the peaceful Type 9 with the assertive 8 wing can create an interesting dynamic. 🧘♀️💪 For me, the 9's desire for harmony and the 8's protective nature can sometimes feel at odds, but they also complement each other well. The 8 wing gives me the strength to stand up for others and myself, while the 9 ensures I approach situations with empathy and a calm demeanor. 🌈 Internal conflict can arise, especially when I want to avoid conflict but also feel the need to assert my boundaries. However, I find that embracing both aspects helps me navigate tricky situations more effectively. 🧩 Maintaining inner peace while channeling assertiveness involves regular self-care and mindfulness practices. It's crucial to stay connected with my inner desires and values, which helps me stay grounded even when I need to assert myself. 🌿✨ Personal experiences have taught me that finding the right balance is an ongoing journey. Remember to give yourself grace and patience as you explore this blend. One tip is to practice setting boundaries in small, low-stakes situations to build confidence gradually. 🛡️ For resources, I recommend reading more about wings in Enneagram books and online forums to gain diverse perspectives. And of course, engaging in self-reflection and journaling can be immensely helpful too. 📚🖋️ Hope this helps! Feel free to reach out if you have more questions. We're on this journey together. 🙏💕