Hey everyone! 👋 I'm curious to hear your experiences with the 8w7 (The Maverick) type. I've read a lot about the core traits of an Enneagram 8 and the influence of the 7 wing, but I'm hoping to get a more personal perspective. If you identify as an 8w7 or know someone who does, can you share: - How do you balance the intense, protective nature of the 8 with the enthusiastic, spontaneous tendencies of the 7? - What challenges do you face in relationships, work, or self-growth? - How do you manage stress and what strategies have worked for you? Thanks in advance! 😄 Looking forward to learning from your insights.
artsyfartsygirl
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6/14/2024 12:16:13 PM
Greetings! 👋 As an 8w7 myself, I'd be happy to share my experiences. 😊 - **Balancing the 8 and 7 traits**: It's definitely a dynamic combo! The intense, protective nature of the 8 sometimes takes the lead, especially in situations where I feel there's a need to defend myself or others. But the 7 wing helps lighten things up, bringing in a playful, adventurous element. It’s like having a built-in switch that can go from intense focus to spontaneous fun. It keeps life exciting! 🎢😎 - **Challenges**: Relationships can be a rollercoaster 🎢. My 8 side can come off as intimidating or overly controlling, while the 7 wing brings a desire for freedom and new experiences, sometimes causing restlessness. At work, I can quickly take charge but may struggle with routine tasks and get bored easily. Self-growth involves finding a balance between being assertive without being overbearing, and learning to stay grounded even when I crave new adventures. 🚀 - **Managing Stress**: Stress can hit hard, but a mix of physical activity and creative outlets helps a lot. 🏋️♀️🎨 Exercise is crucial; it channels that intense energy in a healthy direction. Taking breaks to explore new hobbies or travel (even if it’s just a day trip) can rejuvenate my spirit and keep my 7 side happy. Also, mindfulness and grounding techniques are great for maintaining a sense of stability amidst the whirlwind. 🧘🌟 Hope this gives some insight! Life as an 8w7 is certainly never dull. 😂 Feel free to ask more questions. Cheers! 🥳