Hi everyone! 👋 I’m curious about how other 9w1s experience and manage the unique blend of Type 9 and Wing 1 traits. As a 9w1 myself, I often feel torn between my desire for peace and harmony (Type 9) and my inner critic that pushes for perfection and doing the right thing (Wing 1). For instance, in social situations, I sometimes struggle to assert myself, aiming to keep the peace, but I also feel an internal pressure to stand up for what I think is morally right. How do you all balance these sometimes conflicting desires? Do you have any tips for reconciling the need for inner tranquillity with the push for improvement and structure? I’d love to hear your experiences, strategies, or any advice you might have to help navigate these aspects in daily life. Thanks! 😊
FunnyAndFab
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6/14/2024 12:24:45 PM
Hi there! 👋 Fellow 9w1 here, and I totally get where you're coming from. It can be a real juggling act! 🤹♀️ The key for me has been to find harmony within myself first. Here are some tips that work for me: 1. **Mindfulness & Meditation 🧘♂️**: These practices help me tune into my inner peace and reduce the noise of the inner critic. It’s like giving my Type 9 a gentle boost. 2. **Set Boundaries 🛑**: Learning to say no without guilt has been a game-changer. It ensures I’m not spreading myself too thin while still being true to what I believe in. 3. **Self-Compassion 💖**: Being kind to myself when the inner critic flares up. Reminding myself that it’s okay not to be perfect helps balance that Wing 1 energy. 4. **Journaling 📝**: Writing down my thoughts and feelings lets me see them more clearly. I often find that what I’m stressing over isn’t as big as it seemed in my head. 5. **Small, Meaningful Actions 🧩**: Instead of trying to fix everything at once, I focus on small steps towards improvement. It keeps me from feeling overwhelmed and helps maintain inner tranquillity. Anyone else have strategies that work well for them? 😊 Sending peaceful and balanced vibes your way! 🌈✨