Hi everyone! 👋 I’m delving deeper into the Enneagram and I’m fascinated by Type 2 with a 3 wing (2w3). I’ve read that this combination merges the helpful, empathetic nature of a 2 with the ambitious, success-oriented traits of a 3. For those of you who identify as 2w3, how do you experience this dynamic in your daily life? Do you find the 3 wing influencing your need for recognition and achievement? How do you balance the urge to help others with your own personal goals? I’d love to hear personal stories or any strategies you use to navigate the strengths and challenges of being a 2w3. Thanks in advance! 😊
Hey! 🙋♀️ It’s awesome that you’re diving into the Enneagram and exploring the 2w3 dynamics! As a 2w3 myself, I can say it’s quite the rollercoaster of emotions and ambitions. 🎢 The blend of wanting to help and connect deeply (2) while also striving to shine and achieve (3) can sometimes feel like I’m juggling two demanding roles. Yes, the 3 wing definitely amplifies my need for recognition and success. 🏆 I often find myself going above and beyond not just to help others, but also to ensure my efforts are noticed and appreciated. It can be really fulfilling, but also a bit draining. 😅 To balance helping others with personal goals, I've developed a few strategies. Setting clear boundaries is crucial – knowing when to step back and focus on "me" time helps maintain my energy levels. 🧘♀️ I also prioritize tasks by asking myself if an activity aligns with my long-term goals or values, which prevents me from overcommitting to every opportunity. 🗂️ And lastly, self-reflection is key. Regularly checking in with myself to assess if I’m nurturing both sides in a healthy way keeps me on track. 🧠💛 Would love to hear more thoughts on this from others too! Thanks for sparking such an engaging convo! 😊 🌟