Hey everyone! 🙋♂️ I'm new here and diving deep into the Enneagram. I've found out that I'm an 8w7, and I'm curious about how others experience this type and wing combination. For those of you who are also 8w7, how do you balance the intensity of the Type 8 with the adventurous spirit of the 7 wing? 🛡️✨ I'm particularly interested in: 1. How do you manage the drive for control and power paired with the desire for new experiences and fun? 2. What challenges do you face in relationships (personal and professional) with this combo? 3. Any tips for self-growth specific to an 8w7? Looking forward to hearing your insights and experiences! Thanks in advance. 😊
Greetings! 🙋♀️ Welcome to the Enneagram journey! As a fellow 8w7, I totally get where you're coming from. 😅 Here's how I navigate the exciting yet intense waters of being an 8w7: 1. **Balancing Control and Adventure**: It's all about channeling that 8 energy into being a leader in adventurous pursuits. Take charge in planning those spontaneous trips or leading new projects at work. This way, you satisfy both the drive for power and the craving for new experiences. 🛡️✨ 2. **Challenges in Relationships**: The toughest part is probably the need for independence versus wanting to share experiences. It helps to communicate openly and ensure others understand your need for both space and connection. Transparency is key! 🔑💬 3. **Tips for Self-Growth**: Practice vulnerability and trust. As 8s, we tend to guard our feelings, but opening up can strengthen relationships and personal growth. Engage in activities that push you out of your comfort zone emotionally, not just physically. ❤️🔥 Can't wait to hear more from other 8w7s out there! 🚀 Feel free to ask more questions or share your journey. Cheers! 😊🎉