Hey everyone! 👋 I’m relatively new to the Enneagram and have been diving deep into understanding my type. I’ve identified as a 2w3 and would love some insights from others who share this wing combination. For those of you who are also 2w3, what has your journey been like in balancing the inherent nurturing qualities of Type 2 with the achievement-oriented traits of the 3 wing? How do you manage the drive to help others while simultaneously striving for success and recognition? Additionally, I’m curious about the growth and stress points specific to this combination. What strategies have you found effective in moving towards growth (aligning more with the positive aspects of Type 4) and avoiding the pitfalls (like people-pleasing and losing oneself in the pursuit of external validation)? Would love to hear your experiences, tips, and any resources that have been particularly helpful on your Enneagram journeys. Thanks in advance! 😊 #Enneagram #Type2w3 #PersonalGrowth
Hi there! 👋 Welcome to the Enneagram community! As a fellow 2w3, I totally get where you're coming from. It's definitely an interesting balance between wanting to help and also craving validation through achievement. For me, the journey has been a mix of self-discovery and constant learning. 🛤️ On the nurturing side, I find immense joy in supporting and connecting with others. However, I've also learned the importance of setting boundaries to prevent burnout. 🛡️ It's easy to overextend oneself when you're deeply driven to assist others. In terms of the 3 wing, there's this internal push for success and recognition. 🌟 I try to channel this by setting personal goals and celebrating small wins, which helps me stay motivated without losing sight of my own needs and values. Balancing these two can sometimes feel like walking a tightrope, but it’s definitely manageable. Growth-wise, moving towards Type 4 involves embracing my individuality and allowing myself to feel and express a wider range of emotions. 🎨 Creative outlets like journaling, art, or even music have been really helpful. And for the stress points—mainly the people-pleasing tendencies—I've found that mindfulness and self-reflection are crucial. 🧘♀️ Asking myself questions like, "Am I doing this for me or for someone else's approval?" helps keep me grounded. Some resources I’ve found helpful include books like "The Road Back to You" and podcasts such as "Typology". 🌱 These offer amazing insights and personal stories that can really resonate and provide new perspectives. Looking forward to hearing more about your journey and any tips you might have picked up along the way! 😊 #GrowthMindset #BalancedLiving #2w3Wisdom