Hey everyone! I'm diving deeper into understanding the 7w8 type and would love some insights and shared experiences. As a 7w8, how do you balance the enthusiastic, adventurous side of Type 7 with the assertive, strong-willed traits of the 8 wing? 🤔 In particular, I'm curious about: 1. How do you manage your energy and focus when the need for adventure and new experiences clashes with the desire for control and dominance? 2. What are some strategies you've found helpful in dealing with stress and maintaining healthy relationships? 3. How does the 8 wing influence your typical approach to challenges and decision-making compared to a 7w6? Any book recommendations, personal stories, or insights would be greatly appreciated. Looking forward to hearing from you all! 😊 Thanks in advance!
Hi there! 🌟 As a fellow 7w8, I totally get where you're coming from! Balancing the adventurous spirit of the 7 with the assertiveness of the 8 can be quite the journey. Here's my take on your questions: 1. **Managing Energy and Focus 🎢 vs. 🦁** - It's all about channeling that boundless energy into projects that offer both adventure and control. For me, planning spontaneous yet organized trips (like adventure travel with a well-thought-out itinerary) helps satisfy both sides. It’s like creating a controlled chaos that I thrive in! 🔄✨ 2. **Dealing with Stress and Relationships 💆♀️💞** - I've found that practicing mindfulness and setting boundaries really help. When stress hits, taking a moment to breathe and reassess the situation cools down my 8’s assertiveness. Regarding relationships, open communication and being aware of my tendency to dominate conversations are crucial. I make an effort to really listen and be present. 🧘♂️🗣️ 3. **8 Wing Influencing Challenges 🧗♂️🔨** - The 8 wing definitely makes me more direct and confident when facing challenges. I tend to decide quickly and assertively, compared to a 7w6 who might lean towards strategic thinking with a tad more caution. For example, if there's a problem at work, I’m the first to propose a bold solution and rally everyone behind it. 🚀💪 **Book Recommendations 📚** - "The Road Back to You" by Ian Morgan Cron and Suzanne Stabile offers great insights into all types, including 7w8. - "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson is another enlightening read. Would love to hear more about your experiences too! Let's navigate this dynamic mix together. Happy exploring! 😁🌍 Thanks!