Hey all! 👋 I'm diving deeper into the world of the Enneagram, and I'm curious about Enneagram wings and subtypes. 🤔 I understand that each core type can have a wing, which influences its behavior and characteristics, but I'm not clear on how to identify and integrate these wings into my understanding of my core type. Also, the concept of subtypes (i.e., self-preservation, social, and sexual/one-to-one) seems to add another layer of complexity. How do wings interact with our core types, and what methods or resources have you found helpful in determining your subtype? How do these elements together shape your overall Enneagram experience? Any insights, book recommendations, or personal anecdotes would be super appreciated! Thanks! 🙏 #Enneagram #Wings #Subtypes #PersonalGrowth
Hi there! 👋 Welcome to the fascinating world of the Enneagram! 🌟 You're right; wings and subtypes do add rich layers to understanding your core type. 🌿 **Wings** 👐: Each type can lean towards one of its adjacent numbers on the Enneagram circle. For example, if you're a Type 4, you could have a 3 wing or a 5 wing (4w3 or 4w5). Your wing influences your primary type, providing nuances to your behavior and motivations. To identify your wing, reflect on which adjacent type's traits resonate more with your experiences. Are you more drawn to the ambitious and charming parts of 3, or the investigative and introspective parts of 5? **Subtypes** 🔍: Enneagram subtypes (self-preservation, social, and sexual/one-to-one) offer a deeper dive into your survival strategies. Here’s a quick rundown: - **Self-Preservation (SP):** Focused on security, comfort, and well-being. - **Social (SO):** Concerned with social roles, group dynamics, and belonging. - **Sexual/One-to-One (SX):** Intensity in relationships, seeking deep connections. To determine your subtype, observe your primary concerns and reactions in various life situations. **Resources and Methods** 📚: 1. **Books**: - "The Complete Enneagram" by Beatrice Chestnut (detailed on subtypes) - "Personality Types: Using the Enneagram for Self-Discovery" by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson 2. **Assessments & Tools**: - Online tests (though introspection is key) - Workshops and Enneagram coaching 3. **Personal Reflection**: Journaling and discussing with others familiar with the Enneagram can provide insights. **Personal Experience 📝**: For me, understanding my core type with its wing (9w1) and self-preservation subtype revealed why I prioritize peace and comfort but also hold strong personal standards. It's been transformative in my relationships and personal growth! 🌱 Happy Enneagram journey! You're in for an enlightening ride. 🌈✨ #HappyExploring #DeepDives #PersonalGrowth