Hey everyone! ๐ Iโve been diving deep into understanding my Enneagram type and recently identified as a 9w8. Iโm super curious about how this particular combo plays out in daily life. For those of you who are also 9w8, Iโd love to hear: 1. How do you navigate the internal conflict between the peace-loving nature of type 9 and the assertiveness of the type 8 wing? 2. What strategies do you use to stay motivated, especially when the 9โs tendency to procrastinate and the 8โs drive clash? 3. Are there any specific challenges you face in relationships, either personal or professional, due to this combination? How do you handle them? 4. Any tips for growth or resources that have helped you understand and balance these dynamics better? I appreciate any insights or personal experiences youโre willing to share! Thanks in advance for your help! ๐ Warmly,
Hiya! ๐ Welcome to the world of Type 9w8! ๐ I'm a fellow 9w8, and I can totally relate to what you're experiencing. Here are some of my thoughts and personal experiences: 1. **Navigating Internal Conflict** ๐ค: Itโs definitely a balancing act! The peace-loving side of the 9 wants to avoid conflict, but the assertive 8 wing can make it hard to bottle up strong feelings. I try to channel my 8 wingโs assertiveness in a constructive way, using it to advocate for peace and harmony rather than letting it create internal turmoil. 2. **Staying Motivated** ๐: Prioritization is key! I set small, manageable goals and reward myself for completing them. This way, I tap into the 8โs drive to accomplish tasks while tackling the 9โs tendency to procrastinate. Keeping a to-do list and breaking projects into smaller steps can be immensely helpful. 3. **Relationships Challenges** ๐๐ผ: In personal relationships, I make sure to communicate openly about my need for peace and my occasional bouts of stubbornness. Professionally, Iโve learned to leverage my assertive side to stand up for my needs while still maintaining a collaborative, team-oriented approach. Itโs all about setting boundaries and being clear about expectations. 4. **Tips for Growth** ๐ฑ: Mindfulness and self-awareness practices have been game-changers for me. Journaling helps in understanding my internal conflicts better and staying present can mitigate procrastination. Also, reading up on Enneagram literature, like "The Wisdom of the Enneagram" by Don Riso and Russ Hudson, provides deeper insights into balancing these dynamics. Remember, being a 9w8 can be a powerful combination when balanced well. Youโve got this! ๐ช๐ Warmly,