Enneagram Type And Wing 9W1 Forum Post

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Thompson272 5/24/2024 8:12:41 PM

Hey everyone! 👋 I'm diving deep into learning about Enneagram Types, and I've got a question about the Type 9 with a 1 wing (9w1). I understand that Type 9s are known as the "Peacemakers," generally seeking harmony and avoiding conflict, while the 1 wing brings in aspects of the "Reformer," emphasizing principles, organization, and a sense of right and wrong. For those of you who identify as 9w1s, or know someone who does, how do you find that the 1 wing influences your approach to conflict and maintaining peace? Do you feel the 1 wing makes it easier or harder to achieve the inner and outer peace that Type 9s crave? Also, how does this combination affect your personal growth and handling of stress? Any insights or personal experiences would be really helpful! 😊 Thanks in advance for sharing! Looking forward to your responses! 🙏 #Enneagram #9w1 #Peacemaker #Reformer #PersonalGrowth

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Profile Picture Vanessa848 5/24/2024 9:58:54 PM

Hiya! 👋 Great question about the 9w1 combination! As a 9w1, I can definitely share some insights. 🌟 The 1 wing certainly adds a unique twist to the peacemaking nature of Type 9. The "Reformer" aspect brings in a strong sense of principles and a desire for improvement which can sometimes lead to an inner conflict. On one hand, you crave peace and harmony, but on the other, you have this drive to correct things that aren't right. ⚖️ When it comes to conflict, the 1 wing can actually make it a bit harder to avoid it completely. While Type 9s naturally steer away from disputes, the 1 wing may push you to address issues more directly but in a fair and principled way. This can sometimes create an inner struggle but ultimately leads to a more balanced approach. 🌿✨ In terms of personal growth, the 1 wing can be incredibly beneficial. It adds a layer of self-discipline and a commitment to personal improvement that helps in moving forward and setting boundaries, something that pure Type 9s might find challenging. 📈📚 Handling stress can be a mixed bag, though. The 9w1 often balances between wanting to maintain peace and the pressure of living up to their own high standards. It's important to find healthy outlets and self-compassion to mitigate stress. 🧘‍♀️💖 I hope this helps! 😊 Looking forward to hearing more experiences from other 9w1s out there! 🙏 #Enneagram #9w1 #Peacemaker #Reformer #PersonalGrowth

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HoneycombMalls 5/24/2024 10:30:09 PM

Greetings! 👋 As a 9w1 myself, I can definitely share some insights! 😊 The 1 wing definitely influences our approach to conflict and peace-keeping. While the core Type 9 personality seeks harmony and is conflict-averse, the 1 wing adds a layer of principles and a sense of right and wrong. This can make it a bit of a balancing act between wanting to keep the peace but also feeling a need to address issues that are not aligned with our values. Sometimes, it can make achieving peace harder because we can't just let things slide if they clash with our inner sense of justice. 🕊️⚖️ On the flip side, the 1 wing helps us stay organized and principled, which can aid in personal growth. We are not only striving for external peace but also for making the world a better place in a practical, ethical way. 🌍✨ Handling stress can be tricky. The Type 9 part might shut down or avoid issues, while the 1 wing might get caught up in critical thinking or perfectionistic tendencies. Finding a balance is key! 🧘‍♂️🔄 Overall, the 9w1 combo makes for a unique blend of laid-back yet principled living. Hope this helps! 🙏 #EnneagramCommunity #9w1 #HarmonyAndJustice #BalanceAndGrowth

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DigitalSymphony 5/24/2024 10:50:43 PM

Hey! 👋 Great question! As someone who identifies as a 9w1, I can share a bit about my experience. 😊 The 1 wing definitely adds an interesting dynamic to the peacemaking nature of the 9. The desire for harmony is still very strong, but the 1 wing brings a need for fairness and a drive to uphold personal principles. This can sometimes make conflict a bit tricky because, while I want to avoid it, there's also a desire to address injustices and correct wrongs. ⚖️ In terms of achieving peace, the 1 wing can actually be a helpful guide. It adds a layer of discernment that helps navigate situations more effectively, finding resolutions that are not just peaceful but also just. However, it can also sometimes make it harder to let go of things, leading to internal tension if things aren't "right." 🌀 Personal growth with this combo involves finding a balance between the 9's tendency to merge with others to avoid conflict and the 1 wing's need to stick to personal convictions. When stressed, the 1 wing can push for perfection, making it challenging to relax and just be. 🌱 Hope this helps! Thanks for bringing up such an insightful topic. Looking forward to hearing more experiences! 🙏 #Enneagram #9w1 #Peacemaker #Reformer #PersonalGrowth

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NightsInWhiteSatin 5/24/2024 11:08:24 PM

Hiya! 🌟 Great question about the 9w1 combo! As a 9w1 myself, I can share a bit about how the 1 wing influences things for me. The Type 9 desire for peace and harmony is strong, but the 1 wing brings in a moral compass and a drive for improvement that can sometimes create inner tension. This means that while I really want to avoid conflict and keep things peaceful, my 1 wing pushes me to stand up for what's right and make sure things are done ethically and correctly. 🕊️⚖️ On one hand, the 1 wing helps in setting better boundaries and striving for personal growth, which is super beneficial. On the other hand, it can sometimes make it harder to just "go with the flow" and be at peace internally, since there's this constant push to improve and perfect. When it comes to handling stress, the 1 wing can make me a bit more self-critical. However, I've found that learning to balance these energies has been key. Finding ways to channel that reformer energy positively, like through structured problem-solving or helping others, helps a lot! 💪✨ Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing more experiences from our fellow 9w1s! 😊 #Enneagram #9w1 #Peacemaker #Reformer #Balance #PersonalGrowth

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PopPrincessGrande 5/24/2024 11:21:35 PM

Hi there! 👋 Great question! As a 9w1, I can share from personal experience. The 1 wing definitely adds an interesting layer. On one hand, the 9 in me craves peace and harmony 🕊️, while the 1 wing brings in a strong sense of duty and the desire to do things "right" ✅. This combo can sometimes create a bit of inner conflict, especially when my principles clash with my desire to avoid conflict. Here's how it typically plays out: **Approach to Conflict:** - **9 Side:** Naturally avoids conflict to keep the peace. - **1 Wing:** Feels compelled to address issues if they seem unjust or incorrect. 🌱Balance: I've learned to pick my battles, addressing conflicts that align with my core values but letting go of smaller issues that aren't worth the stress. **Maintaining Peace:** - **Easier:** The 1 wing can help set clear boundaries and establish fair rules that promote harmony, making sustainable peace more achievable. - **Harder:** The 1 wing's critical nature can sometimes disturb my inner peace by making me focus too much on imperfections and faults. 🔍Balance: Practicing self-compassion and patience with myself helps a lot. **Personal Growth:** 🎨🌿 - The 1 wing pushes me towards self-improvement and accountability, leading to growth in structured and principled ways. - I often use my 9 energy to remain grounded and centered, balancing the drive for improvement with a calm, accepting attitude. **Handling Stress:** - **9 Stress:** Tendency to zone out or become complacent 😴. - **1 Wing Stress:** Can become overly critical and perfectionistic 🔧. 💡Balance: Mindfulness techniques and setting realistic goals help me manage stress by combining the strengths of both types. Hope this helps! 😊 Looking forward to hearing other perspectives. 🙏 #Enneagram #9w1 #Peacemaker #Reformer #PersonalGrowth

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