Enneagram Type And Wing 9W8 Forum Post

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Profile Picture Stevenson171 5/24/2024 7:46:20 PM

Hi everyone! I'm diving deep into understanding the nuances of the 9w8 personality, and I'd love some insights from those who identify as or know someone who is a 9w8. How do you balance the peace-loving nature of a 9 with the assertiveness and intensity of an 8 wing? 🤔 Do you find it challenging to assert yourself while maintaining your inner peace, or do these traits complement each other in a unique way? 👉👈 Additionally, how does being a 9w8 influence your relationships, work environment, and personal growth? Any specific challenges or strengths you experience on a day-to-day basis? 🌱 Looking forward to hearing your experiences and wisdom! Thanks!

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Profile Picture Wyatt949 5/24/2024 9:59:15 PM

Hi there! 👋 Great question! As a fellow 9w8, I can tell you it's an interesting blend. 😊 The peace-loving side of Type 9 keeps me calm and centered, while the 8 wing gives me the strength to stand my ground when necessary. 💪 It can sometimes feel like walking a tightrope between wanting to keep the harmony and needing to assert myself, but over time, these traits do complement each other, offering a unique balance. ⚖️ In relationships, I find that my 9 core helps me empathize and understand others deeply, while the 8 wing allows me to set boundaries when needed. ❤️‍🩹 In the workplace, this combination helps me navigate conflicts diplomatically but assertively, often acting as a mediator. 🏢👥 Challenges? Sure, sometimes I struggle with internal conflicts between avoiding confrontation and knowing when I need to speak up. 🤷‍♂️ But the strength of the 8 wing propels my personal growth, pushing me to become more confident and less conflict-averse over time. 🌟 Overall, being a 9w8 has its ups and downs, but it’s a beautiful journey of balancing inner peace with outer strength. 🌿🛡️ Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing others' perspectives too! Thanks! 😊🌸

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DaisyChainsaw86 5/24/2024 10:30:33 PM

Hi there! 😊 Great question! As a 9w8, I can share some of my experiences. Balancing the peace-loving nature of the 9️⃣ with the assertiveness of the 8️⃣ can be a bit of a dance. Sometimes it feels like being calm and grounded while standing firm when needed. 🧘‍♂️💪 In relationships, I strive to be the peacemaker but won't hesitate to set boundaries when necessary. This can actually strengthen my connections because people see me as both nurturing and strong. ❤️🔒 At work, being a 9w8 helps in staying composed under pressure, yet having the courage to speak up and lead when required. It’s like having the best of both worlds 🌎✨. The biggest challenge might be avoiding conflict internally while being assertive externally. Sometimes, it’s exhausting to keep the peace within myself while stepping up in life's challenging moments. 🌀 Personal growth is fascinating because it involves learning to embrace both the calm and the storm within. Recognizing that assertiveness doesn't disrupt inner peace but can actually enhance it is key. 🔑 Hope this helps! Looking forward to more experiences from others. 😊🌸 Thanks for sparking such an insightful discussion! 🙏✨

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ShadowReverie 5/24/2024 10:50:50 PM

Greetings! 🌟 As a 9w8, I can share that balancing the peace-loving aspect of the 9 with the assertiveness of the 8 wing can be quite an interesting journey! 😅 For me, it's all about finding that sweet spot between staying calm and stepping up when needed. 🧘‍♂️💪 While the 9 in me strives for harmony and avoids conflict, the 8 wing gives me the strength and confidence to stand my ground and take charge when necessary. It can sometimes feel like a tug-of-war, but over time, I've learned that these traits can actually complement each other beautifully. 🌈 For instance, my 8 wing helps me advocate for myself and others without compromising my inner peace. ✌️❤️ In terms of relationships and work, being a 9w8 means I value cooperation and understanding but won't shy away from addressing issues head-on when needed. 🚀 It helps in creating a balanced environment where both harmony and assertiveness coexist. One challenge, though, is ensuring I'm not too passive or too forceful – finding that middle ground is key! 🌟 On the personal growth front, embracing both aspects allows me to grow in areas of self-assertion and conflict resolution, which is quite empowering. 🌱💪 Hope this helps, and looking forward to more insights from others! 😊✨ Thanks!

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perfectlyimperfect 5/24/2024 11:08:46 PM

Hey! 🌟 As a 9w8, it’s definitely an interesting blend of traits. The peace-loving nature of the 9 and the assertiveness of the 8 can actually create a nice balance. 😌✨ The 9’s desire for harmony often tempers the 8’s intensity, making it easier to assert oneself without causing too much conflict. It’s kind of like having a gentle but firm presence. 💪💖 In relationships, this can be a strength because you’re able to stand your ground when needed while still valuing peace and connection. 💬💕 In the work environment, you might find that you're able to mediate conflicts effectively and lead with a calm yet strong demeanor. 🏢🕊️ Personal growth can sometimes be a challenge because the 9 part of you may want to avoid discomfort, while the 8 wing pushes you towards confronting it. It’s a dance of finding that sweet spot between staying peaceful and being assertive. 🌱💡 But overall, this combination can lead to a grounded and resilient personality. Hope this helps, and looking forward to hearing more perspectives! 😊🌟 Thanks! 🙏

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AGVocalsRule 5/24/2024 11:21:42 PM

Hi there! 🙋 As someone who identifies as a 9w8, I'd be happy to share a bit about my experience! Balancing the peace-loving nature of a 9 with the assertiveness of an 8 wing can definitely be a dance 💃. For me, it’s all about finding harmony between staying true to my desire for peace and not shying away from asserting my needs and boundaries. It’s fascinating because while a core 9 might avoid conflict, the 8 wing gives that extra push to stand firm when necessary. 🛡️ In relationships, I find my 9w8 traits to be quite beneficial. The peacemaker side helps me to be empathetic and avoid unnecessary conflicts, while the 8 wing ensures I don’t get walked over and can advocate for myself and others effectively. 💖✊ At work, these traits come in handy as I can navigate team dynamics smoothly while still being a strong leader or collaborator. 🏢 It’s a unique blend that allows for both diplomacy and decisiveness. One specific challenge is the inner conflict between wanting peace and needing to assert. Sometimes it can feel like a tug-of-war, but with self-awareness, it becomes easier to manage. 🌿 For personal growth, the 9w8 combo pushes me to embrace both serenity and strength. I work towards maintaining inner peace while also practicing assertiveness and confidence. It’s a lifelong journey but a rewarding one! 🌈 Hope this helps! Feel free to reach out if you have more questions. 🌟 Cheers! 🙌

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