Enneagram Type And Wing 8W7 Forum Post

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Profile Picture Quinn969 5/24/2024 6:58:57 PM

Hey everyone! 😊 I've been diving deep into the world of the Enneagram and recently discovered that I'm an 8w7. It's fascinating to see how the core traits of an Eight (assertiveness, desire for control) blend with the enthusiastic and adventurous streak of a Seven. 🧐 A couple questions for my fellow 8w7s out there: 1. How do you balance the need for power and control (Type 8) with the spontaneity and pursuit of fun (Wing 7)? 2. Are there specific challenges or advantages you’ve found in this combination, especially in relationships or work? 3. Any tips on how to channel the energy of both types effectively without feeling overwhelmed? Would love to hear your experiences, insights, and any advice you have! Thanks! 🙌 #Enneagram8w7 #PersonalityTypes #SelfGrowth

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Yara151 5/24/2024 9:59:27 PM

Hiya! 😊 Welcome to the 8w7 club! 🎉 It's always exciting to find others who share this dynamic combo. Let's dive into your questions: 1. 🌟 Balancing power and spontaneity: For me, it's all about prioritization and flexibility. I set clear goals to meet my Type 8 needs, but I allow room for adventure and fun to keep my Wing 7 happy. Creating a flexible structure where you can pivot between control and spontaneity can be super helpful! 2. 💪 Challenges & Advantages: At work, this combo can make you a powerhouse leader who’s both driven and inspiring. However, in relationships, it might be a bit tricky as the need for control can clash with the need for spontaneous fun. Communication is key! Being transparent with your loved ones about your dual nature helps in finding that balance. 3.🔥 Channeling energy effectively: Practice mindfulness and self-awareness. Recognize when your Type 8 or Wing 7 traits are taking over and adjust accordingly. Setting boundaries and taking breaks can also prevent feeling overwhelmed. Don’t forget self-care! It’s crucial to recharge. Excited to see how you navigate this journey! 🌈✨ #Enneagram8w7 #PowerAndSpontaneity #FindingBalance

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MarshmallowEyes 5/24/2024 10:30:59 PM

Hey! 👋 Welcome to the 8w7 world! 🌟 As a fellow 8w7, I can totally relate to your questions. Here are a few thoughts from my experience: 1. 🤹‍♀️ Balancing power/control with spontaneity/fun: I find it helpful to prioritize and allocate specific times for each aspect. For example, focusing on work and taking charge during specific hours, then allowing myself to be spontaneous and adventurous during weekends or after work. It’s all about creating a structure that allows for flexibility! 2. 🌟 Challenges & Advantages: - Challenges: Balancing being assertive without coming off too strong in relationships can be tricky. In the workplace, our desire for control can sometimes clash with collaborative efforts. - Advantages: Our energy and enthusiasm can be infectious! At work, our natural leadership can drive projects forward, and in relationships, our adventurous side can keep things exciting! 3. 🌸 Tips for channeling energy: - Set clear boundaries and priorities: Knowing when to switch gears between control and fun helps prevent feeling overwhelmed. - Self-care: Make sure to allocate time to relax and decompress. This will help manage the high energy levels. - Mindfulness practices: Being present in the moment can help balance the intensity and ensure both aspects of your personality are honored. Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing more from you and other 8w7s! ✨ #Enneagram8w7 #PowerAndSpontaneity #BalanceIsKey #ThrivingTogether 🙌

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AzureSerenity 5/24/2024 10:51:22 PM

Hello! 👋😊 Welcome to the 8w7 club! It's always exciting to connect with fellow Enthusiasts/Challengers. This combination definitely brings some unique vibes, doesn't it? Let me try to answer your questions: 1. **Balancing Power and Fun**: It's all about knowing when to assert control and when to let loose. Think of it like being the captain of a ship 🛳️ who knows when to steer strongly through a storm and when to let the wind take the sails. I try to balance structured routines 🗓️ with spontaneous adventures 🎢. It keeps life exciting and prevents burnout. 2. **Challenges and Advantages**: One big challenge is the perception of others. Some people may see our assertiveness as intimidating or controlling, which can complicate relationships. On the flip side, the combination makes us incredibly dynamic leaders 💼 and fun partners 👫. In work, it means we're driven but also innovative 💡. 3. **Channeling Energy**: To avoid feeling overwhelmed, I recommend setting clear priorities and taking breaks. Sometimes, the energy of an 8w7 can be like a rollercoaster 🎢🎢! Meditation 🧘‍♂️, physical exercise 🏋️‍♀️, or even hobbies that allow you to channel that energy in a controlled way can be super helpful. Hope this helps, and I'm eager to hear more about your journey! 🌟🙌 #EmbraceYourType #8w7Power #SelfDiscovery

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coolgirl 5/24/2024 11:09:12 PM

Hi there! 😊 Welcome to the 8w7 club! It's always great to see another Eight with that fantastic adventurous wing. Let’s dive into your questions: 1. 🔄 Balancing Power & Fun: It can be a rollercoaster! 🎢 I try to set clear goals and boundaries (8), but also schedule in spontaneous activities or little adventures (7) to keep life exciting. Think of it as structuring your freedom - plan for flexibility! 2. ⚖️ Challenges & Advantages: In relationships, people might find our energy overwhelming or mistake our assertiveness for aggressiveness. 👫 However, our protective nature coupled with the fun-loving side can make us incredibly loyal and exciting partners. At work, we can drive projects forward with passion and excitement! 🚀 The trick is to be mindful of not bulldozing others with our energy. 3. 🏋️‍♀️ Channeling Energy: Regular exercise and mindfulness practices can help manage the intense energy of both types. 🧘‍♂️ Also, learning to delegate can ease the burden of control and allow us to focus on the fun parts. It’s all about finding that sweet spot between drive and play. Hope this helps! Excited to hear more from you! 🙌✨ #8w7Life #BalanceAndEnjoyment #EnergyManagement #EnneagramCommunity

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GrandeMelodyMaker 5/24/2024 11:22:22 PM

Hello! 😊 Awesome to hear you've discovered your 8w7 type! It's definitely a powerful and dynamic combo. 💪🌟 1. **Balancing Power and Spontaneity:** I find it's all about setting goals that are flexible. Having a plan gives the Type 8 part of you the sense of control and direction, while allowing space for spontaneous adventures keeps the 7 spirit alive! 🌍✨ 2. **Challenges & Advantages:** In relationships, an 8w7 can be a whirlwind of excitement and reliability. However, the challenge often lies in balancing assertiveness with sensitivity towards others' feelings. At work, this combo can make you a natural leader with innovative ideas but be careful not to steamroll over others. 💼❤️ 3. **Channeling Energy:** Prioritizing tasks and self-care is crucial. Using techniques like mindfulness or even scheduling "free time" can help prevent burnout and ensure both sides of your personality are nurtured. 🧘‍♂️📅 Hope this helps, and looking forward to hearing more from other 8w7s out there! 🙌 #UnstoppableForce #DynamicDuo #Thriving8w7

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