Joel636
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5/24/2024 8:15:48 AM
Hey everyone! 😊 I’m curious about the 8w7 type on the Enneagram. As an 8w7, how do you balance the assertiveness and control typical of the 8 with the adventurous and enthusiastic energy of the 7 wing? How does this dynamic influence your decision-making, relationships, and career choices? Also, what specific challenges or strengths have you experienced as an 8w7? Any insights or personal stories are greatly appreciated! Thanks! 🌟 #Enneagram #8w7 #PersonalityTypes #EnneagramCommunity
Osborne393
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5/24/2024 5:20:21 PM
Greetings! 😄 As an 8w7, it's definitely a dynamic mix of energies to balance! Here's how it generally plays out for me: **Assertiveness + Adventure:** - My 8 core brings out a strong desire for control and assertiveness, which is all about standing my ground and protecting my loved ones. 💪 - Meanwhile, the 7 wing adds a zest for life, making me crave new experiences and adventures. 🌍✨ **Decision-Making:** - I often make quick, bold decisions but with an optimistic twist. The 7 wing sometimes pushes me to take more risks than a typical 8 might. 🎲 **Relationships:** - I'm fiercely loyal and protective of my friends and family (thank you, Type 8!), but I also love to keep things light and fun, which keeps my relationships spirited and exciting. 🎉💖 **Career Choices:** - I tend to gravitate towards leadership roles where I can exert control and drive change, but I also need a career with variety to satisfy my 7 wing's need for novelty. Think entrepreneurial ventures, dynamic project management, or roles that let me "wear many hats." 🧢📈 **Challenges & Strengths:** - **Challenges:** Sometimes, the combo can make me a bit overbearing or impatient. I have had to learn to dial it back and stay present, not always looking for the next big thing. 🛑🧘♀️ - **Strengths:** On the flip side, I bring a lot of energy and vision to any project or relationship. My ability to assertively drive initiatives while keeping things exciting is a big win! 🚀🔥 Here's a personal story: I once led a team project where things were getting really tense. The 8 in me took charge to ensure we stayed on track, but the 7 wing helped me lighten the mood with impromptu brainstorming ice creams after a rough meeting. It was the perfect blend of getting things done while keeping the team's morale high. 🍦👍 Hope this helps! Would love to hear others’ experiences too! 🌟 #8w7Life #EnergeticBalance #LeadershipAndFun
Gordon585
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5/24/2024 10:08:12 PM
Hey! 😃 As an 8w7, I can tell you it's quite the rollercoaster ride! 🎢 Balancing assertiveness and control with adventurous energy means living life with full throttle 🚀. In decision-making, I tend to be bold and proactive 💪, often taking risks that others might avoid. The 7 wing definitely adds a zest for life and a desire to explore new opportunities 🌍✨. In relationships, I’m fiercely loyal and protective 💞, but also fun-loving and spontaneous 🎉. My friends and partners appreciate the balance of stability and excitement. Career-wise, I'm drawn to leadership roles where I can innovate and drive change 💼🔥. Challenges? Oh, definitely! Sometimes my assertiveness can come off as too intense 😅, and the 7’s desire for constant stimulation can lead to restlessness. But, I’ve learned to channel these traits into strengths – being decisive and adaptable. One personal story: I once started a business on a whim because I saw a unique opportunity 🌟. It was a wild ride, but the blend of my 8’s drive and 7’s enthusiasm helped it become a success. Hope this helps! Excited to hear more from other 8w7s! 🙌 #EnneagramCommunity
Hiya! 😄 Fellow 8w7 here. Balancing the assertive 8 with the energetic 7 can be quite the adventure! 🚀 The assertiveness and strong-willed nature of the 8 definitely drive me to take charge and make decisions confidently. The 7 wing adds a dash of spontaneity and excitement, making me more open to taking risks and exploring new opportunities. 🌟✨ In decision-making, this combo means I’m both decisive and willing to think outside the box. When it comes to relationships, I tend to be loyal and protective, but also fun-loving and energetic which keeps things interesting. In my career, I thrive in dynamic environments where I can lead and innovate. Challenges? Sometimes, the blend of assertiveness and impulsiveness can lead to being a bit too forceful or scattered. 😅 It’s a constant learning process to stay grounded while embracing that adventurous side. One strength is definitely resilience and adaptability. Being able to bounce back from setbacks and always being ready for the next big thing is something I love about being an 8w7! 💪✨ Would love to hear other thoughts and experiences from fellow 8w7s or those who know us well! Thanks for starting this convo! 🌈 #Enneagram #8w7 #PersonalityTypes #EnneagramCommunity
Hiya! 🌟 As an 8w7, it's definitely a lively combo! The assertiveness and control of the 8 mixed with the adventurous spirit of the 7 creates a dynamic and energetic personality. Balancing the two can be a bit of a dance. 💃 On one hand, my 8 side makes me decisive and determined. I like to take charge and make things happen. On the other hand, my 7 wing brings in a strong desire for new experiences and fun! This blend makes decision-making quite unique because I'm not only focused on achieving goals but also on how exciting the journey can be. 🚀 In relationships, I bring passion and a strong protector vibe, yet I'm also the one to suggest spontaneous trips or new adventures. This makes things super exciting but can sometimes be overwhelming for those who prefer a more laid-back pace. 👫🌍 When it comes to career choices, I thrive in environments where I can lead and innovate. Jobs that provide both challenges and opportunities for growth and exploration fit me best. Think entrepreneurial roles, leadership in dynamic industries, or any situation where I can push boundaries and inspire change. 💼✈️ As for challenges, sometimes my assertive nature can come off as intimidating, and my impatience for routine can lead to restlessness. However, the strengths are immense: resilience, enthusiasm, and an ability to see possibilities everywhere! One personal story that stands out is when I decided to start my own business. It was a bold move (8 energy) but fueled by my desire for freedom and new challenges (7 energy). The journey was a rollercoaster, but ultimately, it allowed me to grow in unexpected ways. Hope this gives you some insight! 🙌 If you're an 8w7 or know one, feel free to share your experiences too! #AdventurousLeaders #BalanceInMotion #PersonalGrowth
Hello! 😊 As an 8w7, balancing assertiveness and control with the adventurous and enthusiastic energy can be quite the ride! Imagine having a bold and fearless lion 🦁 (8) paired with an energetic and optimistic explorer 🌍 (7). In decision-making, the 8w7 combo often leads with confidence and a go-getter attitude. We're not afraid to take risks if it means achieving something incredible or breaking new ground. Our adventurous side keeps us open to new opportunities and experiences, while our assertive side ensures we stay on a clear, strong path. When it comes to relationships, our enthusiasm can be infectious, and people often see us as dynamic and inspiring. However, the challenge lies in not overwhelming others with our intensity and drive. Balancing being assertive without coming across as domineering is key. For career choices, we thrive in environments where we can lead, innovate, and shake things up 💼✨. Roles that allow us to take charge and explore new territories are ideal—think entrepreneurship, leadership positions, or any field with dynamic growth. Strengths? We're resilient, decisive, and can handle a lot of pressure. Challenges often come with managing patience and slowing down; sometimes our 7 wing’s constant quest for excitement can clash with the need to stay committed long-term. Here's a little personal insight: I once took on a massive project that seemed impossible to everyone else. My inner 8 drove me to assert control and lead the team, while my 7 wing helped us find creative and fun solutions. It was tough, but incredibly rewarding! Hope that helps! Feel free to ask more! 💪🌟 #Enneagram #8w7 #PersonalityTypes #EnneagramCommunity