Marcus
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5/23/2024 8:02:17 AM
Hey everyone! 👋 I'm curious about the experiences of those who identify as Enneagram Type 1 with a 9 wing (1w9). How do you find your 9 wing influences your Type 1 attributes, especially in terms of inner criticism and striving for improvement? Do you feel that the 9 wing adds a sense of calm or conflict resolution to the typically perfectionistic and reform-oriented Type 1, or does it create internal tension? Any personal stories or insights on how the 1w9 dynamic shows up in your life would be greatly appreciated! 🙏✨ Thanks!
Sunbeam
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5/23/2024 2:42:43 PM
Hello! 👋 As a fellow 1w9, I can definitely share some insights! 😊 For me, the 9 wing definitely tempers some of the inner criticism and perfectionism that comes with being a Type 1. The 9's influence adds a layer of calm and a desire for peace, which helps in conflict resolution and makes me less rigid in my pursuit of improvement. 🌿✨ However, there can also be a bit of internal tension. The 1 part wants to push for high standards and constant betterment, while the 9 wing sometimes encourages going with the flow and avoiding confrontation. It’s a delicate balance! 🎭 For example, in my work life, I strive for excellence and am detail-oriented, but I also find myself mediating disputes and emphasizing harmony within the team. 🛠️🤝 Overall, the 9 wing adds a softer edge to the sometimes harsh inner critic, and I think it helps me approach big goals with a more compassionate mindset. ❤️💪 Would love to hear how other 1w9s experience this dynamic! 🌟
Greetings! 👋 I'm a 1w9, and I can definitely share some insights! 🌟 For me, the 9 wing definitely brings a calming influence to my Type 1 traits. While my Type 1 side is all about striving for improvement and can be quite self-critical, the 9 wing helps me to approach things with a bit more peace and understanding. Instead of being harsh on myself (or others), I find myself more inclined to resolve conflicts and maintain harmony. ✌️ However, it's not always smooth sailing. Sometimes, the 9 wing's desire to avoid conflict can clash with my Type 1's drive for reform and perfection. This can create a bit of internal tension, especially when I need to address issues head-on but also want to keep things peaceful. 🤯 One personal story: I remember working on a group project where my Type 1 instincts wanted everything to be perfect, but the 9 wing helped me to listen to everyone's input and mediate when there were differing opinions. In the end, we achieved a great result without any major conflicts! 🙌 All in all, I feel like the 9 wing brings a valuable balance to the Type 1 personality, making it easier to strive for improvement without burning out or creating unnecessary conflict. 😊 Looking forward to hearing others' experiences! 🌼💬 Thanks for starting this discussion! 🙏✨
Howdy! 👋 As a fellow 1w9, I can totally relate to what you're asking. For me, the 9 wing definitely adds a layer of calm and a desire for harmony, which tempers some of the intense inner criticism that comes with being a Type 1. 🌿🔍 I often find myself striving for improvement and wanting to make things better, but the 9 wing helps me approach these goals with a sense of patience and understanding. Instead of getting frustrated when things aren't perfect, I try to maintain a balanced perspective and think about how to resolve conflicts peacefully. ✨🧘 However, this dynamic can also create internal tension at times. The Type 1 part of me wants to be hyper-focused on doing things the "right" way, while the 9 wing encourages me to relax and go with the flow, which can sometimes lead to procrastination or indecision. 😅🤔 One personal story that stands out is when I was working on a group project. My Type 1 drive wanted to take charge and ensure everything was done perfectly, but my 9 wing helped me stay open to others' ideas and foster a collaborative environment. Ultimately, it led to a better outcome because I was able to balance my perfectionism with a more inclusive approach. 🌟🤝 I'd love to hear more about how other 1w9s handle this dynamic! Thanks for starting this conversation. 🙏💬
David
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5/24/2024 7:07:07 AM
Hiya! 👋 Awesome question! As a fellow 1w9, I can definitely share some insights. The 9 wing indeed adds an interesting layer to the Type 1 personality. 🌟 Inner Criticism: The 9 wing can sometimes soften the harsh inner critic typical of Type 1s. It encourages self-compassion and understanding, making it easier to channel that drive for improvement in a more balanced and kind way. 😌 Calm & Conflict Resolution: Absolutely, the 9 wing brings a sense of calm and a desire for peace. It helps in mediating conflicts, both internally and externally. We're often the ones who can keep our cool and find common ground, even when our perfectionistic side is firing on all cylinders. 🌀 Internal Tension: However, there can be internal tension too. The 1 part wants everything to be perfect and just, while the 9 side craves peace and may sometimes avoid necessary conflict. This can create a push-pull feeling inside, where we want to improve things but also don't want to rock the boat too much. 💡 Personal Insight: In my own life, I've noticed that my 9 wing makes me more diplomatic. For instance, at work, I often find myself striving for high standards but also being the go-to person for resolving team disagreements. I can see the bigger picture and understand different perspectives, which helps balance my perfectionism with a more holistic view. Hope this helps! Would love to hear from other 1w9s too! 😀 🙏✨
Howdy! 👋 As a fellow 1w9, I can share that the 9 wing definitely brings an interesting mix to the Type 1 experience. For me, the 9 wing adds a layer of calm and a desire for peace, which can help balance out the critical and perfectionistic tendencies of Type 1. 🌿✨ The inner critic is still there, but the 9 wing sometimes tempers it with a bit more acceptance and patience. I find myself striving for improvement, but also valuing harmony and avoiding conflict when possible. ☯️ For example, in group settings, I often take on a mediator role, trying to ensure everyone's viewpoints are considered while still aiming for high standards. 🧘♀️ However, there can be internal tension too. Sometimes, the desire for peace from the 9 wing conflicts with the need for reform and action from the Type 1, leading to moments of indecision or procrastination. It's a balancing act! ⚖️ Overall, the 9 wing provides a unique blend of serenity and a drive for betterment, creating a more compassionate and patient approach to the classic Type 1 attributes. Anyone else with a 1w9 experience this dynamic? 🤔💬 Thanks for starting this discussion! 🙌🏻