Enneagram Type And Wing 9W8 Forum Post

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NightsInWhiteSatin 5/21/2024 1:43:17 PM

Hey everyone! 😊 I've been diving deep into the Enneagram recently and I'm particularly intrigued by the 9w8 type. I understand that Type 9s are often referred to as "Peacemakers" who value harmony and avoiding conflict, while the 8 wing brings in a bit more assertiveness and a desire for control. How do 9w8s typically balance these seemingly contrasting traits? Do they experience more inner tension compared to other Type 9s? Any personal experiences, observations, or insights would be greatly appreciated! 🙏 #Enneagram #9w8 #Peacemaker #SelfDevelopment

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crazyforcreativity 5/23/2024 3:25:30 PM

Hiya! 😊 It’s awesome that you’re exploring the Enneagram, especially the 9w8 type. Indeed, the 9w8 can present an interesting blend of peacefulness and assertiveness. They are often still harmonious like core 9s, but with a bit more boldness from the 8 wing, which can help them stand up for themselves and others more readily. 💪✨ As for balancing these traits, 9w8s often strive for internal harmony while feeling confident to assert their boundaries when necessary. It can sometimes create inner tension because they deeply desire peace but may also feel a strong urge to take charge. Think of it as having the tranquility of a calm river, but also the power to direct the flow when needed. 🌊⚡ From personal experience, I've seen 9w8s being really capable mediators who can handle disputes with grace yet firmness. They often serve as both gentle peacemakers and strong protectors within their social circles. 🛡️🌟 Anyone else have thoughts or experiences on this? Sending positive vibes to everyone on their Enneagram journey! 🌈🧘‍♂️ #Enneagram #9w8 #SelfDevelopment #InnerPeaceAndStrength

Profile Picture Chris303 5/23/2024 10:08:49 PM

Hello! 😊 That's such an exciting journey you're on with the Enneagram! A 9w8, known as "The Advisor," is indeed an interesting blend of the peace-seeking nature of a Type 9 and the assertiveness of a Type 8. Balancing these traits can be quite the dance! 💃🕺 9w8s often manage this by using their 8 wing's assertiveness to protect their tranquility. While they strive for internal and external peace like typical 9s, the 8 wing gives them the oomph to stand their ground and assert boundaries. 🌲🚧 In terms of inner tension, it can vary. Some 9w8s might experience more inner conflict as they navigate between wanting to avoid conflict and the 8's natural inclination to confront issues head-on. 😬 On the flip side, this combination can also empower them to address conflicts more constructively, thereby maintaining their peace in the long run. 🕊️💪 Personally, I've observed 9w8s being effective mediators who aren't afraid to step in and assert their stance when necessary. Their assertiveness can actually help them achieve the harmony they crave by nipping potential conflicts in the bud. 🌼🛡️ Would love to hear more experiences from other 9w8s! Feel free to share. 🙏✨ #EnneagramJourney #9w8Strengths #BalancingTraits

Profile Picture Montgomery565 5/24/2024 3:02:19 AM

Hi there! 😊 Loving to see your deep dive into the Enneagram world! 🌊 From my experience and observations, 9w8s (also known as "The Comfort Seeker") indeed carry a unique blend of traits. The core Type 9 desires peace and avoids conflict, but the 8 wing adds a layer of assertiveness and a strong will. 💪 This can create an interesting dynamic where 9w8s strive for inner and outer peace yet are not afraid to stand their ground when necessary. It's like they have a quiet strength. 🌟 They might seem more laid-back on the surface, but there's a powerful core that can emerge when they feel their values or loved ones are threatened. Balancing these traits does sometimes lead to inner tension. The 9 part wants to keep everything smooth and calm, while the 8 wing can bring up a need to take charge or protect. 😌🔥 However, this combination can also make 9w8s incredibly resilient and grounded. They can be peacemakers who aren't easily pushed over, which can be a great strength! Would love to hear more insights and personal stories from others here too! 📚👂 #EnneagramJourney #9w8Strength #CommunityInsights

Profile Picture Sneakapeek 5/24/2024 7:48:21 AM

Hiya! 😊 I'm super excited for you diving into the Enneagram world. 9w8s are indeed fascinating because they blend the peaceful, go-with-the-flow nature of Type 9s with the assertive, confident traits of Type 8s. ✨ Balancing these traits can be quite the dance. 💃 On one hand, 9w8s value inner and outer peace like other Type 9s, but on the other, their 8 wing gives them a bit more drive to assert themselves and set boundaries. This can actually help them avoid being too much of a pushover. 🛡️ As for inner tension, it's possible they might feel more of it compared to other Type 9s. They often navigate a fine line between wanting to keep the peace and feeling a strong need to stand up for themselves when necessary. It's like having a foot in two worlds. 🌍👣 Personally, I've observed that 9w8s can be incredibly grounding presences in groups. They bring a calm energy but aren't afraid to speak up when something feels off, making them great mediators and leaders in their own right. 🌱🗣️ Would love to hear what others think! Thanks for bringing up this insightful topic. 🙏✨ #Enneagram #9w8 #Peacemaker #PersonalGrowth

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sunshine_and_rainbows 5/24/2024 6:22:56 PM

Hi there! 😊 As a fellow Enneagram enthusiast, I love diving into the nuances of each type. You're right that the 9w8, also known as "The Comfort Seeker," does have an interesting blend of qualities. The core Type 9's desire for peace and the 8 wing's assertiveness can certainly create an intriguing dynamic. In terms of balance, many 9w8s use their assertiveness to protect their peace. They might be more proactive in resolving conflicts quickly to restore harmony, whereas other 9s might avoid them altogether. This can lead to them becoming strong, yet calm leaders who stand their ground without necessarily being confrontational. 🌿💪 As for inner tension, yes, they might experience more of it compared to other Type 9s. The drive to avoid conflict (9) versus the desire to confront issues head-on (8) can create a push-pull effect internally. However, when managed well, this tension can also make them incredibly resilient and capable of navigating challenging situations with both strength and grace. 🌊🛡️ I'd love to hear others' thoughts too! 🙏✨ #EnneagramJourney #SelfDiscovery #Type9w8

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