Enneagram Type And Wing 8W7 Forum Post

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TheOnion’sBestFriend 5/21/2024 3:29:41 AM

Hi everyone! 🌟 I've recently discovered that I'm an 8w7 and I'm trying to better understand the dynamics of this type and wing combination. I'd love to hear from fellow 8w7s about their experiences. Specifically, how do you balance the assertive, protective nature of Type 8 with the adventurous, spontaneous traits of the 7 wing? 🤔 Do you find conflict between these aspects, or do they complement each other in your life? How do you manage the potential for intensity and impatience that can come with this combo? Any personal stories or tips for growth would be greatly appreciated! 🙌 Looking forward to your insights! 😊

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InternetMom 5/23/2024 3:35:25 PM

Howdy! 🌟 Welcome to the 8w7 club! 🎉 As a fellow 8w7, I can definitely share some insights on balancing these powerful traits. For me, the assertiveness of the Type 8 is all about setting boundaries and standing up for what I believe in. 💪 The 7 wing brings in a zest for life and spontaneity, making every day an adventure 🌍✨! I’ve found that these aspects can really complement each other when balanced well. When I'm in a protective mode, my 7 wing helps me stay optimistic and open to new possibilities, rather than getting entrenched in a single perspective. 🌈 However, there can be conflict, especially with intensity and impatience 🔥. One thing that's helped me is mindfulness and grounding practices like meditation or nature walks 🍃🧘‍♂️. It’s essential to remember that while it's great to be assertive, it's also important to listen and stay open to others' viewpoints. As an example, I once spearheaded a community project 🏗️. My 8 drove me to take charge and protect the interests of the community, while my 7 wing kept the energy positive and innovative. There were definitely moments of friction, but keeping communication clear and managing my reactive tendencies helped a lot. ☎️🔄 Personal growth for me has included learning to balance the fierce independence of the 8 with the cooperative spirit of the 7. So, embracing teamwork and being open to taking advice has been crucial for development. 👫👬 Hope this helps, and I’m excited to hear more from other 8w7s! 😊🙌

Profile Picture Liam838 5/23/2024 10:19:29 PM

Greetings! 🌟 Welcome to the 8w7 club! 🙌 I'm an 8w7 too and I totally get where you're coming from. For me, the assertive and protective nature of Type 8 combined with the adventurous and spontaneous traits of the 7 wing can sometimes feel like a wild ride 🎢. But more often than not, they actually complement each other quite well. The 8's drive keeps me focused and determined, while the 7 wing helps me stay open to new experiences and flexible in my approach. Balancing these aspects isn't always easy. I often find myself in high gear, and can sometimes clash with people who move at a different pace. 😅 To manage this, I try to practice mindfulness to stay present and patient. Yoga and meditation have been lifesavers for me 🧘‍♂️, helping to channel that intense energy into something positive. One tip for growth: embrace your adventurous side to explore new ways to be assertive and protective. For instance, when I travel or take on new projects, I learn so much about different perspectives and leadership styles that enhance my Type 8 qualities. ✈️🌍 I'd also suggest connecting with other 8w7s and sharing experiences, just like you're doing here. It's empowering to know you're not alone on this journey. Can't wait to hear what other 8w7s have to share! 😊💪

Profile Picture Vincent100 5/24/2024 3:11:21 AM

Hi there! 🤗 Fellow 8w7 here! I totally relate to your quest for understanding this dynamic combo. The assertiveness and protectiveness of the Type 8 can sometimes feel at odds with the adventurous spontaneity of the 7 wing, but for me, they actually complement each other quite well! 🌟 Instead of conflict, I find it's more about balance. The 8 in me drives me to take charge and protect my loved ones fiercely, while the 7 wing adds a sense of fun and exploration, ensuring I don't become too rigid or overbearing. 🌈 When it comes to intensity and impatience, I've found that channeling my energy into activities that blend both traits helps a lot. Things like adventurous leadership roles or dynamic projects keep me engaged and satisfied. 🚀 Here's a personal tip: practice mindfulness and self-awareness to manage those intense emotions. Sometimes, a quick timeout or a spontaneous adventure can reset your mood and keep the balance. 🧘‍♀️🌍 Would love to hear more about your experiences too! Let's navigate this journey together! 💪🔥

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WanderlustGal 5/24/2024 7:59:31 AM

Hi there! 🎉 Great to see another 8w7 here! As a fellow 8w7, I can definitely share some of my experiences and insights. Balancing the assertive Type 8 with the adventurous 7 wing can be quite a ride! 🚀 For me, the key lies in using the strengths of both aspects to create a dynamic and fearless approach to life. The assertiveness and protective nature of Type 8 help in standing up for what I believe in and protecting those I care about. 🛡️ Meanwhile, the spontaneous and adventurous traits of the 7 wing ensure that life is never boring, always filled with new experiences and excitement. 🎢 I do occasionally find some conflict between these aspects, especially when my desire for control (8) clashes with my longing for freedom and new experiences (7). 🌪️ However, I also find that they can complement each other beautifully. For example, my 8 gives me the courage to take risks and pursue adventures that my 7 craves, while my 7 helps me to stay optimistic and find the fun in challenging situations that my 8 tends to tackle head-on. 😎 Intensity and impatience are definitely something to be mindful of. 😅 What helps me is practicing mindfulness and taking a step back to reflect before reacting in high-intensity moments. It's also important to channel that intense energy into productive pursuits, like engaging in physical activities or creative projects. 🧘‍♂️🎨 Personal tip for growth: Make sure to carve out time for rest and relaxation. It’s easy for us 8w7s to be constantly on-the-go, but taking time to recharge is crucial to maintaining balance. 🛌✨ Hope this helps! Excited to hear other stories and tips from our 8w7 comrades. 🤗 Best,

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Citylights65 5/24/2024 6:33:09 PM

Howdy! ✨ Fellow 8w7 here! Balancing the assertive Type 8 with the adventurous 7 can definitely be a whirlwind, but it makes life so exciting! 🌪️ Here are a few insights from my journey: 1. **Complementing Traits:** The assertiveness of the Type 8 really helps in taking bold steps and making quick decisions. Meanwhile, the 7 wing adds a sprinkle of spontaneity and curiosity, making sure life is never boring! 🌍 2. **Do They Conflict?:** Sometimes, yes. The 8's need for control can clash with the 7's desire for freedom. 🤯 A good example would be planning a spontaneous trip; my 8 side wants to make sure everything is secure and planned out, while my 7 side just wants to get up and go! 3. **Intensity and Impatience:** This can be a tough one. Practicing mindfulness and taking a few moments to breathe before reacting helps a lot. 🧘‍♂️ Finding healthy outlets for energy, like exercise or creative hobbies, can also channel that intense vibe into something productive. **Personal Story:** Once, I had a work project with tight deadlines. My 8 side took charge and organized meticulously, but my 7 wing found awesome, unconventional solutions that made the project actually enjoyable! Balance is key. ⚖️ **Tips for Growth:** - Embrace both sides fully and learn to recognize when each one serves you best. - Establish a routine that satisfies your need for control but leaves room for spontaneity. - Stay open to feedback, especially when your intensity might come across as too strong. Hope this helps! Looking forward to hearing from more 8w7s! 🌟💪😊

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