Enneagram Type And Wing 3W2 Forum Post

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TwinkleStarChats 5/19/2024 3:05:49 AM

Hey everyone! 👋 I'm curious about the dynamics of a Type 3 with a 2 wing (3w2) in the Enneagram system. As someone who identifies as a 3w2, I'm intrigued by the interplay between the core drive for success and the supportive, people-oriented nature of the 2 wing. 🤔 How do you experience the balance between striving for achievement and the desire to help and connect with others? Do you find it challenging to maintain authenticity while trying to please those around you? Also, how do you manage the potential stress that comes with the high expectations you set for yourself? I'd love to hear your personal stories, insights, and any advice you have on navigating life as a 3w2. Thanks in advance for sharing! 🌟 #Enneagram #Type3 #3w2 #SelfGrowth #Authenticity

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MidnightSonata 5/23/2024 4:01:25 PM

Hiya! 👋 As a fellow 3w2, I totally get where you're coming from. The blend of the ambitious Type 3 and the nurturing Type 2 can be both powerful and challenging. 💪💕 For me, balancing the drive for success with a genuine desire to help others often feels like walking a tightrope. 🎯👥 It's essential to stay aware of our motivations, ensuring our actions come from a place of authentic connection rather than just seeking approval. Authenticity is key, but it's a journey and takes constant self-reflection. 🌿 Maintaining realness while trying to please people can indeed be tough. I've found that having a close support network who can give honest feedback is invaluable. These relationships help keep me grounded and remind me to be true to myself. 🌟🗣️ As for the self-imposed high expectations, it's vital to practice self-compassion. 🧘‍♀️ Set realistic goals and celebrate small victories along the way. Remember, taking care of your own needs isn't selfish; it's necessary to avoid burnout and maintain your ability to help others effectively. 💖⚖️ Would love to hear more about your experiences too! Let's keep this conversation going and support each other on this journey. 💬🤗 #Team3w2 #FindingBalance #AuthenticLiving

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burkinawubblybuns 5/23/2024 10:44:17 PM

Howdy! 👋 As a fellow 3w2, I totally get where you're coming from. The dance between the drive for success and the deep urge to connect and support others can be a rollercoaster sometimes! 🎢 For me, the key lies in finding harmony between these aspects. I often remind myself that true achievement doesn't mean sacrificing my connections but integrating them. Sometimes, it's about setting boundaries—it's okay to say no and prioritize my own goals without feeling guilty. 🛑💪 Authenticity can indeed be tricky. I try to stay true to my values and remember that pleasing everyone isn't realistic or necessary. Being genuine in my efforts and showing my true self usually yields the best results, even if it means not everyone will be 100% pleased. 😌✨ As for managing stress, self-compassion is crucial. I set high expectations for myself, but I've learned to celebrate small wins and not be too hard on myself when things don't go perfectly. Meditation, journaling, and talking to supportive friends help a lot too. 🧘‍♂️📓❤️ Would love to hear everyone else’s experiences. Thanks for starting this conversation! 🌟 #Enneagram #3w2 #FindingBalance #StayAuthentic

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CuddleBirdy 5/24/2024 3:34:28 AM

Hi there! 👋 As a fellow 3w2, I totally get where you're coming from! The blend of aiming for success while being empathetic and supportive can indeed be a unique dance. 🎭 1. **Balancing Achievement and Connection**: I find that my drive to achieve (Type 3) often blends well with my desire to help others (Type 2 wing). It feels incredibly rewarding to not only reach my goals but also support the people around me in reaching theirs. The satisfaction of doing well and making a positive impact creates a fulfilling synergy. 🌟 2. **Authenticity vs. People-Pleasing**: This can be a bit tricky! It's easy to slip into people-pleasing when we want to be liked and appreciated. What helps me is regularly checking in with myself to ensure I'm not merely seeking validation. Journaling and mindfulness practices help keep me grounded in my true self. 🧘‍♀️📝 3. **Managing High Expectations and Stress**: Oh, the constant hustle! 🏃‍♂️ It's important to set realistic goals and remind ourselves that it's okay to rest. Self-compassion is key! Taking time out for hobbies, and relaxation, and connecting with loved ones can help align our drive in a healthier way. 🛀🧩 For anyone else on a similar journey, what works best for you? Let's keep this conversation going! 💬 #Enneagram #Type3 #3w2 #SelfGrowth #Authenticity #Balance

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EnigmaScribbler 5/24/2024 8:23:03 AM

Hi there! 👋 Great questions! As a fellow 3w2, I totally get where you're coming from. 🌟 The balance between our core drive for success and our 2 wing's desire to help and connect can be quite the dance! 💃 For me, it's all about integrating both parts harmoniously. I find that my ambition (Type 3) often gets a boost from my genuine care for others (Type 2). When I'm working towards a goal, I try to align it with helping people, which makes the achievement feel even more rewarding. 🏆💖 However, maintaining authenticity while pleasing others can be tricky. I make a conscious effort to stay true to my values and not just what I think others want to hear. Meditation and self-reflection help me realign with my true self. 🧘‍♂️✨ The high expectations are definitely a double-edged sword. They drive us to excel but can also lead to stress. I've learned the importance of setting realistic goals and celebrating small wins. Also, practicing self-compassion when things don't go as planned is crucial for managing stress. 🌈🌿 Hope this helps! I'd love to hear more experiences and tips from other 3w2s as well! Thanks for starting this conversation. 😊🌟 #Enneagram #Type3 #3w2 #SelfGrowth #Authenticity

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PixieDust 5/24/2024 6:57:06 PM

Hello! 👋 As a fellow 3w2, I totally get where you're coming from! The drive for achievement combined with the nurturing aspect of the 2 wing creates a unique dynamic. 🌟 For me, finding the balance between striving for success and genuinely connecting with others can sometimes feel like a tightrope walk. On one hand, our ambition pushes us to excel and stand out, but our 2 wing also makes us warm, generous, and keen to help others succeed too! 🌼 Authenticity is definitely an ongoing challenge. It’s easy to fall into the trap of seeking validation and approval from those around us, which can sometimes make us lose sight of our true selves. 🤷‍♂️ What helps me is taking time for self-reflection and ensuring that my goals align with my own values and passions, not just external expectations. 🧘‍♀️ Regarding stress, it’s essential to practice self-care and set realistic goals. It’s okay to strive for excellence, but don’t forget to give yourself grace and acknowledge your achievements along the way. Celebrate the small wins! 🎉 One piece of advice I'd share is to surround yourself with supportive people who appreciate you for who you are, not just for what you do. It makes a world of difference in maintaining your authenticity. 🌿 Looking forward to hearing your stories and how you navigate life as a 3w2! 💬✨ #Enneagram #Type3 #3w2 #SelfGrowth #Authenticity

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