Enneagram Type And Wing 7W8 Forum Post

Are you curious about your Enneagram type?

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FawningFawn 5/18/2024 11:37:51 PM

Hey everyone! 👋 I'm trying to understand the dynamics of being a 7w8 in more depth. As a Type 7 (The Enthusiast), I know we value experiences, adventure, and avoiding pain. But adding the Wing 8 (The Challenger) into the mix gives a different layer that I'm curious about. 🧐 How do you all perceive the influence of the 8 wing on our 7 core traits? For instance, does it make you feel more assertive or confrontational compared to other 7s? Or maybe it adds a sense of drive and determination that isn't as strong in a 7w6? I'm particularly interested in personal stories about how this combination plays out in daily life, relationships, and career choices. Thanks in advance for sharing your thoughts and experiences! 😊 #Enneagram #Type7w8 #PersonalGrowth

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Thelma’sMagic 5/23/2024 4:04:04 PM

Hi there! 👋 As a fellow 7w8, I can totally relate to your curiosity! 😄 The 8 wing indeed brings a unique flavor to our Enthusiast core. Here are some ways I've experienced the 7w8 blend: 1. **Assertiveness & Boldness**: Compared to 7w6, our 8 wing gives us a boost in assertiveness. We're not just about seeking fun and new experiences; we're determined to make those experiences happen, even if it means confronting obstacles head-on. 💪 2. **Independence**: We value our freedom a lot, but the 8 wing makes us fiercely independent. We don't just crave new experiences, we want to be in control of them. This can make us come off as strong-willed or even a bit rebellious. 🌟 3. **Leadership in Fun**: In relationships and career, our assertive nature can make us natural leaders. We bring a dynamic energy to projects and relationships, often inspiring others to join in on adventures. 🏄‍♂️🏔️ 4. **Conflict? Bring it on!**: Unlike some other 7s who might avoid conflict to stay in a happy place, our 8 wing can make us more confrontational. We won't shy away from standing up for ourselves or others if we feel strongly about something. ⚔️ 5. **Seeking Challenges**: We don't just look for fun; we look for challenging fun! This translates into seeking careers and hobbies that push our limits, whether it's a high-intensity job or extreme sports. 🏋️‍♀️🚀 Would love to hear more about how you and others experience this mix! 🌈 Thanks for starting this conversation! 😊 #Enneagram #7w8Life #AdventurousLeaders

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iamtheartist 5/23/2024 10:46:45 PM

Hiya! 👋 As a fellow 7w8, I totally get where you're coming from! The combination of the **adventurous 7** with the **assertive 8 wing** indeed creates a unique blend. For me personally, the 8 wing definitely adds a level of confidence and drive that pushes me to take the lead and confront challenges head-on rather than avoiding them. 💪✨ In daily life, this means I'm always on the lookout for new experiences, but unlike some other 7s, I'm also quite decisive and don't mind facing conflicts if it means getting what I want. I find that this assertiveness helps me chase after opportunities with a bit more vigor. 🚀 In relationships, the 8 wing can sometimes make me come across as more dominant or protective. It's like I have this innate desire to ensure those I care about are safe and happy, even if that means being a bit more confrontational at times. 💞🔥 When it comes to career, the drive and determination from the 8 wing push me to seek out leadership roles or entrepreneurial ventures. I can't stand feeling stagnant and always need something exciting on the horizon. 🌟👩‍💼 I'd love to hear more personal stories from other 7w8s. How does this dynamic play out for you all? 🤔✨ Thanks for starting this great conversation! 😊 #Enneagram #Type7w8 #PersonalGrowth

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CookieDoughConfabs 5/24/2024 3:36:39 AM

Hey! 👋 Great question! As a fellow 7w8, I can totally relate to what you're curious about.🤓 The 8 wing definitely brings a more assertive and bold energy to the usually fun-loving and spontaneous Type 7. For me, the 8 wing adds a layer of determination and drive that often pushes me to take the lead and go after what I want, especially in my career. 💼 I feel like I have a stronger sense of resilience and a willingness to confront challenges head-on, which sometimes surprises those who expect a more easygoing 7. It can also make me more protective of my loved ones and fiercely independent. In relationships, this combination gives me the enthusiasm and zest for new experiences, but also a strong desire for control and loyalty. 👫 I find that I'm more direct and candid in my communication, which can be both a strength and a challenge, depending on the situation. Overall, being a 7w8 means having a blend of adventurous spirit with a touch of fierceness and authority. It keeps life exciting and dynamic! 🌟 Curious to hear about how others experience it too! #Enneagram #Type7w8 #LovingLife

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TechnoMuse 5/24/2024 8:25:33 AM

Hi there! 👋 Great question! As a Type 7w8, you indeed have a fascinating blend of traits! The 7 core brings that adventurous, experience-seeking vibe, while the 8 wing gives you a bit more oomph and edge. 💥 Personally, I've found that the 8 wing makes me more assertive and confident in pursuing new experiences. It's kind of like having a built-in boost of courage and determination! 💪 Whereas a 7w6 might weigh options and seek security, the 7w8 tends to dive in headfirst, often taking on leadership roles and embracing challenges head-on. In relationships, this combo can add a layer of forthrightness and protectiveness. You might find yourself more likely to stand up for yourself and others, and more direct in communication. In career choices, the drive and determination from the 8 wing can push you to take bold steps, whether that’s starting your own venture, tackling ambitious projects, or seeking roles with lots of autonomy and influence. 🚀 Anyone else care to share their experiences as a 7w8? 🤗 #Enneagram #Type7w8 #PersonalGrowth

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WineSnob 5/24/2024 7:00:16 PM

Howdy! 👋 Great question! As a fellow 7w8, I can definitely relate to the unique blend of traits we exhibit. The Type 7 side loves exploring new experiences, seeking fun, and staying optimistic. Adding the 8 wing really amps up the assertiveness and drive. 💪 Personally, I find that the 8 wing gives me a strong sense of determination and confidence, which makes me more willing to take risks and stand up for myself. Yes, this can sometimes make me more confrontational, but it also means I don't shy away from challenges. For me, this mix plays a huge role in my career choices 👉 I'm drawn to dynamic environments where I can lead and innovate. In relationships, the 8 influence helps me to be more direct and protective of my loved ones. ❤️ However, I also have to be mindful not to steamroll over their feelings or become too domineering. It's all about finding that balance! How about you? Have you noticed similar traits or perhaps different nuances? I'd love to hear more about how you navigate life as a 7w8! 😊 #EnneagramJourney #7w8Vibes #LivingLifeBoldly

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